Advice

Q: My husband takes the train and parks his car in a yard were a woman lives alone. Is he allowed to enter her home? He says that they are old friends and grew up together, what do I do?

Q: My friend needs an urgent advice on the following: I am living with my in laws in a big house, my father in law and mother in law live in separate rooms, they do not have any physical relation. My married nand is also living with us as her husband is in saudia. She is a working woman. When she goes for work , my father in law takes her 3 year old daughter and I have seen him doing real bad things with this girl. My other two dewranis have also seen him doing bad stuff with goat that we have. Two other minor girls of house are also witness that their grandfather touches them on private parts. If I inform my husband, or any other person at home, I fear divorce. I am already divorced and this is my second marriage. These people are very far away from deen, they think the father is pious and can not commit any sin. If I don't tell, I feel guilty. What should I do?

Q: By birth I was not a Muslim, but I followed Islamic rules and performed namaaz in the last four years. I wear shawl when I go to my college or outing but my friends always insult me for wearing a shawl. They tell others that I am not a Muslim but act like a Muslim. I am so hurt.

Q:

1. What if someone goes through difficulties and sickness because of his own sins and mistakes. Will he be rewarded for his patience?

2. How to show gratitude and patience in such situation?

Q: I married a Muslim man as a second wife. When his first wife was informed, she threatened to poison me, my (our) husband, the children and herself. I am new to Islam and my husband is teaching me about the religion. I have no idea what to do as my husband now fears for the lives of his children as well as our lives. Can she force him with these threats to divorce me? Please tell me what to do! 

Q: I live with my old aged mum and two brothers. Both of them are unemployed. I cannot make nikaah because if I do, there will be nobody to take care of her. In this modern world it is difficult for two queens to live under the same roof. I do not have the means to take care of two households. Please advise if i am committing a sin by not making nikaah.

Q: I have a problem where I find it hard to concentrate for longer then 15 minutes, what duas can I read or what can I do to improve my concentration?

Q: If a girl gets involved in a great sin by rubbing her private part against a pillow and discharges, is she committing zina? She performs salah five times a day and knows about Islam. If such a girl continues this and her parents are not getting her married then what must she do? 

س: على لسان صديق يقول زوجتي تخونني مع اخي واخاف الفضيحة في نفس الوقت ماذا تفعل في هذه الحالة

Q: Me and my wife have just returned from hajj الحمد لله. We wish to have some guidelines as to how should we lead our lives from now onwards so that we can please Allah Subhan wa Ta'ala.