Advice

Q: Three months before I got a son. But my son has no right ear. The right ear got microtia very little meat there like peanuts. The hearing in the right ear is also effected. I want to know why was my baby born with this defect? What does Islam say? My wife and I were doing wazifas to have a son. All reports during pregnancy were fine. Please tell me why God give me an abnormal son? Did  I commit some Gunaah due to which Allah Ta'ala is punishing me?

Q: I wanted to ask something related to my health and mind. It's been more then a year I am obsessed with the thoughts of death 24/7. It's in my mind and I am not able to relax. Every time I think about death and then I get dreams where I hear someone dying or I am going to graveyard or something like this and I get more scared. My life is ruined. Everyday I cry because I get stomach aches, headaches and every time I think that I have got some major disease. Can you please tell me what is it and how to get out of it? I will be very thankful to you.

Q: I am a non Muslim married lady and have a kid also. I want to ask a question that what should I do if my husband is not fulfilling his responsibilities like as in he is busy in his job and life, busy with gadgets, mobile laptops. I have my in laws and my kid to be looked after so ultimately all the responsibility comes on me looking after kid, in laws and managing all household chores. My husband don't give me money also as per the requirements so I have to do a job also. So I want to have an answer from you what should I do?

Q: Is it permissible that a boy and girl after engagement talk on the phone or on skype?

Q: My father has a house on mortgage, is it permissible for me to live in it? My father gets upset everything I try to talk to him and say its haraam and try to get him out of it. What should I do in this sort of condition?

Q: I am 28 years and suffering from alergetic Asthma since 2004 and now I am doing a job as a teacher and related with the Tablig Jamaat. Now my family is forcing me to marry but I am afraid to get married as I am comparatively weak internally but I look like a healthy man, so no one believes me to be a weak man. What can I do? Please advise me.

Q: I was in my bed suddenly a thought came to me that have you said to someone you are not married? I don't think I  said so. I know these are waswasas but they don't leave me. Can I take bait?

Q: What is the solution for negative thinking, inferiority complex, drowsiness, irritation?

Q: Is it recommended for children to obey parents in marriage as they are opposing the children?

Q: I am 27years old going on 28 soon inshallah and am not married and my parents never talked to me about it and I never asked too. My question is that can I ask them why they never said anything to me about it and did they ever try to find someone or should I just keep quite and don't ask because I am really confused and this is upsetting me?