Advice

Q: I'm a 21 year old female. I have always been extremely skinny and when I reached the age of puberty, I started to get bullied because I remained on the skinny side and didn't develop a chest. The bullying got so bad I started to fill my bra. I did not realize at the time how this may affect me later but it has gotten to the point where if I do not fill my bra, it is very noticeably different. This problem has emotionally and psychologically scared me for the longest time. Everyone I know always comments about how I look like a 12 year old kid (even with the fake chest) and it tears me apart. This "fake chest" is the only way I feel my age. I do not want to face being humiliated if I stop filling my bra by my family, relatives and friends and was considering breast enlargement. As I see it right now, my only options are either surgery or continuing filling my bra. Please advise.

Q: Their is a friend of mine who wants to marry a girl but he is not able to decide as the girl has told him that she was in relation with a boy in past and has been physical with him also. And on the contrary my friend has also been physical but he has made a serious repent to Allah and is a practising muslim now Alhamdulillah. So he is very much confused now whether he should marry a girl who is not pure? Though he is not in touch with that girl now but is still very much confused about that girl what to be done. As he himself is not pure but now has made sincere tauba. So request you please help on this case.

Q: What is shirk? I am getting waswasas about Allah. I don't know I had thoughts in my mind that Muhammed (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) isn't the prophet and all that I don't know it was in my mind and then I took my mind off. Is this shirk?

Q: I have very bad thoughts all the time, even while making wudu and performing Salaah which I am feeling very shameful to tell. I am married but my thoughts are very bad and it is effecting my concentration on my work and it is also effecting my performance. Please advise me what to do and what to read?

Q: I have been married for 15 years but my marital life has turned up side down, in fact last few months back my wife was supposed to take khula but since I cried for the children that got postponed. Now my wife's father in demanding me to give talaaq as they will not give me khula' and are making a lot of false allegations. I am not interested in giving talaaq but her parents are demanding from me talaaq as in the case of Indian law they can ask anything from me after talaaq or they can even put false cases and can extract money and property from me. Please advise me can I refuse to give talaaq and is this as per Shari'ah law? In case she wants she can go for khula.

Q: My mother in-law has doubt that her son and his wife are doing some magic to get rid of her and that she sees insects in her food and every where and that her things disappear, she doubts them, she does not eat if they make any thing for her because she sees insects in the food. When we ask her why would they do it to you, she says they want to control the House and every thing from me and their father that they wanted to transfer the house to their name. Please advise her what to do and what to read. She is in severe pain because of this circumstances.

Q: I have been masturbating for 10 years. Now I am getting married. Maybe I may not be able to last long what should I do?

Q: I am in a huge problem. Everything seems impossible. I don't know what to do. I have asked Allah to help me but know I feel that everything is over. I have applied for higher studies. But I didn't get selected. I don't have enough marks. I have been studying very hard for 13 years in school but on the end of the year everything went wrong. My marks was very bad I went from an  A to C and E. And for my higher study I was on a waiting list (I know I have been on that list for 4-5 month) yesterday I sent them an e-Mail and They replied that they will not take more students and in December is the final exam in nutrition. I just need to get selected at get in to nutrition before December. Then everything will be fine but what do I do. It seems impossible. I have faith in Allah that he will not let that happen to me. Please in the name of Allah help me. I need an urgent wazifa to make this possible.

Q: I put my 6 gold bangles in my room. No one came to my house. I don't know where's my bangles gone. I don't know who stole it. I am very worried frem last year and my in laws whole family said I gave it to my parents but I did not. Please give me the best wazifa if someone picked it, he must return it. I am really worried.