Ambiguous words of Talaaq

Husband telling wife "Pack your bags and leave"

Q: I would like to enquire about the validity of my nikaah. My husband and I are experiencing marital difficulties and he has asked me to pack my bags and leave twice this month.

I heard the fact that he asked me to pack my bags and leave even once, it counts as divorce and nikaah needs to be made again after iddah period. Please advise if the nikaah is now invalid.

Telling one's wife "Get out of my life"

Q: Me and my wife have been married for two years now. We fight often because we both have anger issues but at the same time we love each other alot. One day, the fight was so extreme that my wife started screaming and she said "I need divorce". She was out of her mind. Now she says that she doesn't remember what happened to her and she swear to Allah that she never meant it. When she said it, I got angry. After a few minutes of talking, I also lost my temper and just angrily said, "Get out of my life" but I also swear to Allah that I never meant it. I was only saying this out of frustration but never ever meant it.

Is it talaaq-e-kinayaa because we both never meant what we said and we can put our hands on the Quran and say it. The next day I told her that I take all my words back, you are my wife and I love you. She did the same and then we hugged each other and had physical relation as well. 

Ambiguous words of talaaq

Q:

1. If a wife asked for talaaq and the husband replied “theek hai tumhare abba se baat karunga” will it be a talaaq?

2. One day I had a fight with my wife but things cooled down. While speaking to my wife, instead of saying "mujhe tumse baat nahi karni" words came out of from my mouth as “tumhara mera koi rishta nahi jisme hum ek dusre se batein share karein” but then suddenly a thought came into my mind that this could be kinaya words, will it be a talaaq-e-baain?

Will the word "choro mujhe" constitute divorce?

Q: A wife says to her husband that she wants to work because she is educated and suffers from depression thus wants to work and help her husband out financially. Also because the husband doesn't give her any money, instead he gives money to his parents.

The husband said "agar job karni hai or job karni hai to choro mujhe or job karni hai to chordena mujhe".

Meaning if you work or want to work then leave me.

The wife asked whether he had intention of divorce and he said "no", he just meant that she should stay with her father and then come back. If the wife worked would this be a divorce?