Those situations where Talaaq does not take place

Q: If a person expresses in a threatening way in front of a relative over telephone (not in presence of his wife) that he will give his wife three talaqs, then what is the ruling?

Q: My question is wife saying to husband "there is no relationship between you and me" is she given taalaq?

Q: My question is if a husband and wife argue, then the husband says if you don't look after my kids u go. What does it mean? Is this divorce words or just husband said in anger after he got normal love kids and wife he said if I say something to you in anger, don't take it serious. I didn't mean it because I am suffering depression and anxiety. Please guide me.

Q: I have got a decree of dissolution of marriage from my husband through court, he did not appear in the court. Then the case forwarded to arbitration court, he did not appear there as well. Finally, the court issued me a certificate of divorce. As per his saying he did not receive a single notice from the arbitration court. But in response to his some query, I informed him that the case is in the arbitration court. Now, it has been five years, I did not remarry. Please advise whether my divorce has been confirmed or still I have a chance to go back to my husband.

Q: I need some clarity as to whether the below statements are valid talaaq or not?

1. My husband asked me a question: "What will you do if I have to ask you for a divorce?"

2. When asked by my family if he wanted to leave me, he only nodded to confirm yes.

3. We signed a settlement agreement regarding the visitation rights of the children and maintenance. He now regrets everything and wants to reconcile.

Please advise if we can and the correct way to do so.

Q: My question is my husband brought something for me when he came from shopping but I wasn't happy with what he brought, then he came in anger and said (dil chahta ha ke aik din na rakhu). Me chup ho gayi. Now I am very upset. Did anything happen with this? After sometime everything settled down.

Q: Is the nikaah over if a husband and a wife are separated for 2 years? One of my Muslim sisters has been married for 3 years. She hated him because when she got pregnant he told her to do abortion just four months after the marriage and he left her until she delivered the baby then he was back to her and after she forgave him they were staying in separate homes while she was taking care of her sick mom. He did zina with another woman and after two months they were back together again. Then he told her about what he did and since then she never consider him as her husband and she asked him for divorce but he never granted her divorce. He said to her since I did this mistake you can do whatever you want and I will be ready to accept you then we will be equal and she hated him even more. After one year she travelled to another country and she liked a guy which she wants to marry but she is confused if her nikaah is over or cancelled since it's been almost two years now that they are not living together and she doesn't want him but he is refusing to give her talaaq.

Q: I was having a good time with my wife. I just snatched a pillow from her because I was using the internet at that time so she said to me a word in urdu (katti) and I said (acha yar). I hope you know katti. Katti means when in childhood friends use to say to break friendship and they raise little finger and say katti. That word, my wife used to me and it was just in love I know but I was busy on the internet and I said acha yar thats all. I didn't have niyaat or any thoughts of divorce. After that when using the internet I got waswasa and it made me afraid. I am having waswasa since 1 year. What to do?

Q: Since the 4th day of marriage my wife asks me to divorce her, but she tells me in private. In front of everyone she denies it.

Q: If a husband says to his wife while disciplining her over a shar'ee masla that if she does not obey he will divorce her and she becomes quiet after that, does that constitute divorce? If she later on does that action does that constitute divorce? The husband meant that as a threat and not as an oath.