Those situations where Talaaq does not take place

Q: During a quarrel, if the husband says to his wife, "I slept with your mother", but he never touched his mother- in-law with lust. Is there any problem in this?

Q: Me and my husband had an argument and then I came to my parents house. I was pregnant at that time. My husband, just to threaten me so that I would come back home sent me a message saying "divorce Septmeber, 2017". He wanted to tell me that he will give me a divorce in September but he did this just to make me upset and did not intend as such. The very next month, in April, he came to me and we had a relation and apologized for what he did. He said that he just did it to threaten me so that I would come back. We want to know if it will be counted as divorce? 

Q: On 21st November 2018 we had a baby and on 29th November 2018 my husband said to me "I want to divorce you" three times. He had brought two witnesses with him. I was still impure from my delivery that time. Since then I am staying with my family and have been trying to reconcile with him. Now my husband is willing to reconcile but we dont know if it is possible. My husband says that even though he said "I want to divorce you" he had the intention of divorce. Can you please tell us if the divorce happened and how can we reconcile? 

Q: During a quarrel with one's wife, the husband said to his wife "We have no relationship" without the intention of divorce.

When the wife asked the husband what was his intention, the husband got angry and said that he had the intention of divorce but after some time later he said that he had no intention of divorce. He really said it without the intention of divorce.

My question is, the husband had no intention of divorce but he just said that he had the intention of divorce (he spoke a lie) so will divorce take place? 

Q: Today, my husband and I had an argument. He was very aggressive and used bad language. He told me, "You are my sister" Is this a talaaq?

Q: During a quarrel with his wife, if a husband says to his wife, "See what I do tomorrow" (his intention was to say that he will divorce her tomorrow). And the next day and the day after he didn't do anything. He just wanted to scare his wife. Will talaaq take place?

Q: During a fight with my wife, I said "Mujhe tumhare sath nahi rehna". I came to know later on that this is a kinaya word of talaq and I am not sure about my niyat while saying these words. Can I redo my nikah to be on the safer side? 

Q: If a husband is angry and he is about to say the word "talaq". But only "tal" or "tala" comes out of his mouth. Then he stops himself from completing the word "talaq". Would there be talaq or no? Please answer both cases. First if he is talking to his wife and she is present in the room. Second when he is alone and thinking of divorce.

Q: In the beginning of my marriage, my wife did something that made me upset. But we did not fight. She left and I started getting thoughts of divorce. But I pushed them away and told myself that no divorce, these things happen throughout life. And the thoughts of divorce also got me upset. Then as I was walking to my room words came out of my mouth. Actually the words were not good and I am also ashamed of them so I will not mention them here but will substitute the words. The words were: "Hate the talaq, hate the the talaq, talaq ko talaq (divorve to divorce in Urdu) As soon as I said these statements, a sudden thought came to my mind that what if these words caused a divorce. I kept getting waswasa a for few days and I kept telling myself that no I was upset at the thoughts of divorce and I was saying this not to my wife but in order to show my hate towards the divorce.

After 2 months I started getting the thoughts again about the statements I made. While I was thinking about what I said, the words "talaq ko talaq" i.e (divorce to divorce in Urdu) came out of my mouth again all of a sudden. I am so upset why these words came out of my mouth. What should I do?

Should I take it as waswasa and leave it, or what should I do?

Suppose a person is having intention of divorce in his heart, and all of a sudden he said those words i.e. "hate the talaq, hate the talaq, talaq ko talaq" what would be the ruling then.

Q: I was discussing with my wife and sister about talaq and what are the conditions of divorce or which words initiate divorce etc. At the end I was talking about a case in which a husband says talaq talaq talaq to his wife as joke or randomly, will talaq be issued in this case?