nikaah

Nikaah beghair gawaaho

Q: Main or ek lari ek dosre se mohabbat karte hain. Hum ne kuch arsa qabal ba waou ho kar Kalmay parh ke Allah or US ke Rasool (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) ko haazir naazir jaan ke gawah bana ke rishta banaya. Mian biwi ka or ek paper par likh ke signature bhi kiye. Kuch arsay bad main hum ne nikkah bhi kia fone par. Us ke waleden chirr ki waja se razi nahi thay so hum ne kar lia or socha man jain gaye to bata ke rukhasati kar lain gay. Us ke parents ne us ki shadi zabardasti kahin kar di or usay itna majobour kia ke wo bol na saki. Sawal ye hai jo paper jis ka zikar main ne pehlay kia kya us ki sharai hesiyat hai or us bad hamaray nikkah ki or us ke bad us shadi ki jo us waleden ne ki. Us ki us shadi ki ehmiyat kya hai jab ke us nikkah se pehle wo mere nikkah main hai?

Marrying a person who has changed his gender

Q: I have been a resident in a foreign country for about 10 years. 2 years ago I met a woman who is completely feminine in nature. As time passed our relationship grew stronger. I wanted her to marry me and convert to Islam. She showed interest in doing so but the real problem is that she was born male by gender, and at the age of 21 she had her gender change operation and removed all the male sexual organs with female body parts. Now she is a women in all ways. There is no going back for her. She is supposed to be a women for the rest of her life. My question is, is there a possibility that a Muslim can still marry her given her circumstances , otherwise we know that to have gay/sexual relations with a man is a despicable sin. Please suggest me what to do.