premarital relationship

Q: Maire shaadi nahi ho rahi hai. Ya'ni sowchkar maire baap bahut pareshaan rehete hai. Pata nahi kya hota hai maire shadi ka jab bhi waqt nazdiq aata hai to pata nahi aisa kyu hota hai ladka mana kar deta hai yaa phone par baat karna band kar deta hai. Yaa rista tut jata hai. Mufti saab. Mai kya karu mujhe sajh nahi aata hai mai job karti hu. Bas subha ka waqt milta hai namaz ke liy zayada waqt bhi nahi mil pata hai allaha maaf kare pls bhai aap jo bhi hai maire liy dua kijiyega allaha ab ek ladke se baat chal rahi hai.. out of delhi reheta hai 4 saal se bool raha hai aaunga aaunga shadi karunga lekin abhi tak nahi aaya.. bhai.. beech mai baat hue the.. aa raha hu lekin us time phone hi band kar liya tha. Ab dubara se bool rahe hai aauga aaunga lekin pata nahi ki kab aayega pls bhai aap dua kijiye. Allah paak unhe jaldi bhej de or nikha karke apne saath le jaay. Mai bahut chahti hu unhe pichle 7 saal se allhumdo lillaha vo bhi sunni hai.. pls aap log maire liy allaha se dua kijiyega .... mai kya hua padu jo maire muskil aasaan ho jaaye pls mujhe bataeye.. or allaha par pura yaakin hai allaha sab accha karega.. bahut sabar bhi karti hu pichle & saal se sabar kar rahi hu. Please aap kuch accha bataeyega? Allah behetar kare.

Q: Mujhe teen bachche hai. Mere sauhar dusri shadi karna chchte hai unka kehna hai ki unko aur bachche chaye jis ki wajah se wo gair ladki log se bat karte hai mere mana karne par wo bolte hai ki wo dusri ladki log se bat karke galat nai kar rahe hai please mufti saheb mujhe bataye ki kya mere sauhar jo bat karte hai ladki log se wo galat hai ya nahi?

Q: I needed to ask a question regarding my istikhara. I had prayed my istikhara and had a dream that I was in a place quite dark and there were other people there too eating and drinking and whilst I was in the bathroom of the place someone had attempted to rape me but I got saved when someone else walked in. The person that saved me had told me to stay with them after that and had told me to wait for them outside whilst they went to get something. However, once they had walked away I had ran in the opposite direction to my car away from the person that had saved me. I usually drive a silver car but in my dream the car was maroon and the dream had ended once I got in. I carried out my istikhara in regards to marriage and whether my fiancé has really turned to Allah the way he claims he has, I'm not too sure whether I should believe him or not and it is causing us problems. I really need an understanding of this dream and whether it means anything or not.

Q: Mera ek ladki se che saal se rishta tha me hi uske piche pda tha wo shuru se nikah ki zid karti thi mene apni ammi se baat bhi ki thi unhone kaha uska kad chota he mene use ummid di tm koshish krti raho wo maan jaegi usne dil jaan se koshish ki mujhse jb b nikah ki zid krti ki gunah se bch jaege me taal deta tha wo mujhe smjhati b thi ki ye gunah he me hi tb use mjbur kr deta tha wo kbi room dating k lie nai mani magar tb b hm kafi close the isi bich mera kisi or ladki se b rishta bn gya mene use ye btaya b nai ki ab meri life me koi or b he use choda b nai na mere kehne pe mere ghar walo ne use btaya meri ammi b uske ghar bs rishta le gai thi pkka nai kia tha mene use ummide di ek din ammi man jaegi wo isi umid me ji rai thi jb use sach ka pta lga to wo bohot roi ki tm ya tmhare ghar wale bta to dete us ladki se rishta b pkka kr dia mujhe b jhuti ummide di ye tmne dhoka kia he zulm kia mere sath me b mjbur hu dusri ladki se rishta pkka ho gya dusri wali ko chod nai skta na wo ladki chodne degi ghar wale b dusri ko apna chuke Islie mene use mana kr dia mene mere ghar walo ne usse baat tk bnd krdi ab wo msg krti rehti he ki tmhe allah saza dega meri izzat mujhe wapas nai milegi lekin usne b sbko bta k meri b to izzat nilam ki baad me usne is galti ki mujhse mafi magi mene keh dia tmhe mafi nai sza milegi Kya wo sach kehti h ki ye mene zulm kia kya mene galat kia he.

Q: Mera ek ladki se che saal se rishta tha me hi uske piche para tha wo shuru se nikah ki zid krti thi mene apni ammi se baat bhi ki thi unhone kaha uska kad chota he mene use ummid di tm koshish krti raho wo maan jaegi usne dil jaan se koshish ki mujhse jab b nikah ki zid krti ki gunah se bch jaege me taal deta tha wo mujhe smjhati bhi thi ki ye gunah he me hi tb use mjbur kr deta tha wo kbi room dating k lie nai mani magar tb b hm kafi close the isi bich mera kisi or ladki se b rishta bn gya mene use ye btaya b nai ki ab meri life me koi or b he use choda b nai na mere kehne pe mere ghar walo ne use btaya meri ammi b uske ghar bs rishta le gai thi pkka nai kia tha mene use ummide di ek din ammi man jaegi wo isi umid me ji rai thi jb use sach ka pta lga to wo bohot roi ki tm ya tmhare ghar wale bta to dete us ladki se rishta b pkka kr dia mujhe b jhuti ummide di ye tmne dhoka kia he zulm kia mere sath me b mjbur hu dusri ladki se rishta pkka ho gya dusri wali ko chod nai skta na wo ladki chodne degi ghar wale b dusri ko apna chuke Islie mene use mana kr dia mene mere ghar walo ne usse baat tk bnd krdi ab wo msg krti rehti he ki tmhe allah saza dega meri izzat mujhe wapas nai milegi lekin usne b sbko bta k meri b to izzat nilam ki baad me usne is galti ki mujhse mafi magi mene keh dia tmhe mafi nai sza milegi Kya wo sach kehti h ki ye mene zulm kia kya mene galat kia he.

Q: Mera sawal ye hai ke mai jis ladke se mohabt karti hu wo shadi shuda hai uski bv ne phle hm dono ko permission di thi shadi ki pr bad m mukar gye to wo b badal gya hmre bich kbhi koi galat rishta nhi raha yaha tk ki kaye kaye saal baat tk nhi ki. Ab mai usse nikah karna chahte hu pr wo tyar nhi to kya mai usse nikah ke liye wazifa ya salat ul haajat padh ke Allah se uske sath nikah ki dua kar skti hu ye gunah to nahi?

Q: Mai ye janana chahta hun ki Agar koi ladka kisi ladki se pyar karta hai aur uska us ladki se shaadi ho jata hai To kia us ladke ki kismat mai wo ladki thi aur agar wo us ladki se pyar nhi karta to us ladke ka wo biwi banti bahut ladke jab unke maa baab razi nahi hote hai to bhaag jr shaadi kr leten h our nikah ho jata h to kia wo log jo bhaag k shaadi kie wo unki kismat mai likha tha Ki ye khud se sochne wali chij hai mujhe batain please.

Q: Mera masla ye he ke mai ek ladke se mohabt karti thi pr uski maa mujhe pasand nahi krti thi or uski shaadi kara di uske bad maine usse contact nahi kia ki ab uski shaadi ho gye. Phir shaadi ke do saal bad usne mjhe call kia ke tm mujse shasdi karlo. Maine bola ki tum shadi shuda ho to wo khne laga ki wo biwi ku nahi pasand krta agr maine usse nhi kia to jaan de dega Maine ga kr dia phir usne apni biwi se bat ki jo phle khud talaq chahte the pr jb usko pata chala to usne talaq se inkar kar dia phir usne kaha ki uske rehte huye karlo. Maine ghar me baat ki to sab maan bhi gye phir wo apne baat se piche hat gaya or mjhe shadi ke liye mana kar dia or ab mai usi se nikah krna chahte hu to kya ye jayaz hai agar ha to koi wazifa bata den ki wo raazi ho jaye nikah ke liye.