Q: I have met a Christian friend over Facebook 3 years ago and we are now close friends, even best friends. I have tried to convince him to become a Muslim but no results. I am a girl and Muslim and my friend is a boy and Christian. Isn't this haram?
Q: Me ek ladki se bahot pyaar karta hu aur woh bhi mujh se karti hai aur aage hum dono ne shadi ka irada bhi kiya tha but uske ghar k maali halat thik na hone k wajah se use kahin aur kaam k liye jaana pada me is chiz se khush nahi tha but me maan gaya.aisa kareeb ek saal tak chala woh kuch din k chutti pe aati fir chali jaati mujhe hamesha aise khwaab aate k woh mujhse dhoor jaa rahi hai aur me sirf uska apni life me wait karta reh jaoga is khwaab ki mujhe tabeer jaanni hai.
Q: I am studying architecture 3rd year. I am 22 years old. I like a boy who is 3 years younger than me, he is still studying mechanical engineering and is in 2nd year. We both will be completing after 2 years. I spoke about that boy to my mom and she didnt even consider it as his family belongs to a middle class or does not stand with our family status. She strictly rejected it as he is also 3 years younger than me. He is a well mannered person and his character is good as well. I feel that this is more than enough to consider in spouse rather than wealth and family background. I feel that there is no such restriction in Islam when it comes to the age of marrying and moreover our Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) was 25 years when he got married to Hazrat Khadijah. I said that I will complete my studies and by that time he will be completing his engineering as well and we both looking forward to getting married. My parents are not listening to my wish and are forcing me to marry someone of their choice. Because of all these issues in my home, I am unable to concentrate on my studies. Please help me in resolving this matter.
Q: Mai ye janna chahata hu ke ye jo asraat baali baat hoti hai kya wo sahi hai. ek ajeeb waqiya mere sath kai saal se ho raha hai. jis ladki se meri shadi hone wali hai wo mujhse phone pe baat karti mai kyuke wo mere mama ki beti hai uske upar koi asar hota hai jab bhi wo kabhi raat m 12 baje call karti hai to uske upar jo aati h wo hi baat karti hai meri mama ki beti ko pata bhi nhi chalta ke usne mujhse baat ki hai aur na hi uske mobile m koi call details hoti aur ajeeb baat ye h ke bettery bhi down nhi hoti. phle to wo theek se se baat nhi karti baad m karne lagti hai aur jo bhi wo baat batati h mere future se relative wo sahi ho jaati h meri shadi insahallah jaldi hone wali h mujhe aap kuch raye de ke ye kya maamla hai last jab meri usse baat hui to maine usse pucha ke ager tum mere shadi ke baad bhi aa gayi to meri bibi ko koi problem to nhi hoga wo boli kuch nhi hoga. aisa kyu ho raha please mujhe bataye kyu ke mai sirf Allah se mangta hu sabkuch aur apni jindagi jydahtar deen pe gujarna chahta hu mujhe iski baato pe bleave nhi ho raha kya h ye maajra.
Q: Hum aramse ek cousin hai jo hame but pasand tha but 8 saal hoga ab aysa kuch nahi hai aur wo 8 saal se hamare khawab me aara hai. Khwaab bada hi acha hota he. Recently humne use msg kiye the but uska kuch kha as reaction nahi tha. Iska kya matlab ho sakta he. Hum but pareshan hai. Hum mari aaj ki zindagi par but fark padh raha he. Please khawab ki tabir ki jiyega.
Q: Mujhy app say apni shadi ke baare may baat karni he. Main apni pasand ki shaadi karna chati ho our sub sahi chal raha tha har cheez sahi thi hum pechly 5 saal say baat kar rahy thy our khush thy Sath our humari nature buhat same thi. Matlab hum nay Allah Ta'ala say ayk dua ki thi k humra life partner ASA ho Jo same ho hum say our Allah tallha say yah dua humari qabool b ki hum milwaya waha say jaha say humra koi chance hi nahi tha our sub sahi chal raha tha mery ghar waly maan b gay thy us k liya our us k ghar waly b man gay thy k thik hy hum jaey gay our baat pakki Kar k ay gay per howa kuch ASA k wo ay our unho nay mujh may points niklna churo kardiyn our us larky ko b kahny lagy k wo Larki sahi nahi hy. Per jab say meri baat us larky say ho rahi thi meri mama khuwab dakh rahi thi k main ho our buhat khush ho kahi green darakt k pass ho our buhat sary fruits cut Kar rahi ho our main nay green colour Ka dress wear kiya howa hy. Our jab say meri our us larky k baat kharb Hoi hy mama khuwab may dakh rahi hy k mama k hath may AK plate hy jiss may kuch green colour Ka hy buhat Sara our mama dil may yah soch rahi hy k yah our to weisy hi hy Jesy humary piyary NABI (P.B.U.H) ka roza Mubarak Ka menar hy.. Ab please app mujhy in khuwaboo ki tabeer batain our yah batain k wo mery naseeb may hy yah nahi..
Q: Mufti saheb mera dusra sawaal ye hai ki jisse mai chahti hu meri shaadi hojai uski kuch months pehle shaadi huvi pr wo us shaadi se kuch khush ni hai naahi biwi k saath hain. Pata nahi kase uski wo shaadi huvi wo bht zyada preshaan hai. Agr wo biwi ko divorce dega wo gunnah mt hai kuch. humko 9 saal ikhatay huve hum ek dusre ko boht zyada chahte hain pr shaadi ni huvi.. hum apas mai shaadi karna chahte hain magr smj ni araha hain kase.. ap mehrbaani kr k help kijiye.. wo agr divorce usko dega tou wou humko badh dua nai deni chahie jis se hum do kbi khush nai rahege.. kuch madad kijiye kya kare hum.. boht preshaan h donu.
Q: Ek larki hai hindu shaddi suda wo larki apne pate k sath khush nahi Hai. Larki apne pate ko devors dena chata hai. Magar pate dena nahi chata. Or wo larki abhi mujhse shaddi kara chata hai. Or Islam ve qubhul karana chata hai. Or Islami tarekha k sath shaadi karna chata hai or mein muslaman hu.. Abhi mein agar us larki se shaddi karu to keya uska jo hindu larka k sath shadi hua.. Devors na lake shaddi karskata hu.. Islam keya kehata hai
Q: Meri mangni hui hai aur is rihtey ko aat mahinay hogaye. lekin mene kabi apny mangetar se na phone pe bat ki hai na me un se mili hun. Lekin sirf messaging pe bat hoti hai. Barah-e-karam mjhy bata dijye kia ye najaiz hai aur kia is ki wjh se mere ibadat ka zaya hinay ka khatra to nhi? Kyun ke me ne fone pe bat karna ya milny ko hi najaiz khty suna.
Q: I have been stressing myself out on my wife's past. I am about to get married next month and I have been engaged with my fiance for 8 months. I have never asked about her past and I know she had a relationship with a guy for 3 years until I came. I knew this from the beginning. I love her so much she is my first love and love of my life. I have been in love with her for 7 years. She was in my school. Just recently when I asked her that if she has ever done anything related to sex with her boyfriend she said no and swear ALLAH (Ta'ala) but when I talked to her about other girls why do they do or cross prescribed boundary of Islam with their boyfriends without even knowing that if they really going to get together and be married couple in future, she started to act weird and confused. So I finally asked her again that if she has ever done anything with him and this time I asked her to swear her on her deceased mother and she finally confronted that she has kissed him four times or more but nothing happened after or passed that limit. I asked her again if she is telling me the truth and only you have done kissing with him nothing more intimate, she said I swear I was worried that we are going to get married after a month and I hid it because it would harm our marriage. So my question is should I trust her and keep her and take her words? Because she lied to me with the oath of Allah Ta'ala. I know her that she is not lying that she hasn't done anything other than kissing but my male ego is bothering me. I try to forgive her but after some hours I get mad and emotional again. I am really confused that should I trust what she is saying or not. Should I keep her or not. Please help me with this.