Q: I have been married for 4 years. I have been separated from my husband staying with my parent for 2 years. He does not nafaqah me. We spent more time apart than together. I have no trust in him, I don't believe him. Our gap has grown so much bigger between us. Whenever we speak about things trying to make changes, but it never happens. We are still fighting. I'm unhappy miserable and lonely.
Q: Can a woman obtain a fasakh on the basis of non-nafakah (not buying clothes and not providing a roof over our head and letting his wife and children live off his mother in-law) on financial and emotional abuse and not spending time with his children? Also spending all his free time with his half brother and cousin fixing vans.
Q: I have something that has been troubling me. My husband told me he had a male call him in a private number accusing him of having an affair with this man's wife then he goes on to tell that, that man then tells that I am having something to do with him which highly got me angry which I know is a lie. I phoned a service provider enquiring if I can trace a private call so I can prove my innocence I asked my husband to take me to police station to open up a case against that private call but he refused to take me he said he will sort it out but he doesn't want to take me. Then my husband tells me that the station police told him that they can only see the area which person is calling from but not the actual person which I believe is a lie because all sim cards are registered. Customer care told they can trace a private call but my husband is adamant that it can't be done and private call is only coming when he is not at home. So I don't know if my husband is trying to defame me or trying to accuse me of something and it is really disturbing me a lot and causing discomfort. Please advise me I don't want to leave any stones unturned I want to get to the bottom of the truth.
Q: Meri shaadi ko 11 saal hogy hai. Mere teen bache hai. Mere shauhar ka mujhe har baar bura bhala kehna gande lafz waparna talak ki dhamkiya dena bht rude behaviour saal se raha bacho par bhi unka kuch khass aur ghar ka. Mera kisi par bhi unka dhyaan kb na tha ab baat yeh hai ki mujhe apne shauhar se bht nafrat si hogy hai aur un ke sth jismani talokat banana mujhe bht ganda lagta hai mujhe bilkul bhi mann nh hota balki gunah lagta hai mera jism mujhe bilkul bhi izzazat nh deta mere bache bhi bht thakgy hai unke baap ke behaviour se is surat me kya karna chahiye hazrat mujhe islam aur sunni shariat se batae.
Q: Mujhe pochna tha ke meri 2 betiyan hain Alhamdulillah nere bache buhat chote hain abhi or meri saas mere sath rehti hain or wo har bat ma kehti hain ye mera haq ha mere bachon ko jo bat wo batati hain mere bache meri bat nai sunte or mujhe poche bagair wo mere bachon ko bahir lejati hain kbi meri nand ke ghar bhejdeti hain or mere husband b kuch nai kehte ulta mujhe he chup karate rehte hain ma bht pareshan ai hui hun kia dadi ka haq bachon pe zayada ha maa se har waqt mere bacho ke samne khti ha tum log dressing achi karo mama se bolo ke tum ye dress nai pehnugy or agr ma dant don bachon ko tu kehti hain tum se bache nai sambhale jate apne kamre ma mere bachon ko lejati hain or ma kuch nai karsakti itni bebasi kia ye islam ha ke wo itne aram ma beta k ghr ma or beti ke ghr k kareb rehti jo chahe karti ha Allah ne apna ghr driver sab diya ha or ek or beta ha par phr b mere or mere bachon ke peche pari ha tang achuki hun ma unse mere hsband tu bs job pe hote ha ya computer pe bethe rehte hain namaz parhne chalejate hain ya khelne chalejate hain humare upar apni maa ko chor dete hain ye kesi neki kamani hui unki waja se kai bar mere husbnd se b larai hui kia ma apne bachon ko kuch keh nai sakti unko dosro k ghr jane se ruk nai sakti ma kia karo mere bache hain ma unse buhat pyar karti hun Allah meri madad karde plz bataye ma kia karun wo apne dosre bete ke pass kio nai jati jab ke wo akela ha usk b neighbour ma uski behan rehti ha ye kio nai jati usk pas... koi hal ha kia is bat ka?
Q: Maine khwaab mai daikha ke maire dosre jagah shadi ho gae hai but jis se hue hai us ne maire devrani se bhe shadi karle hai or wo us k sath bohat khush hai or Jo us k pehlay sohar se bache hai uska beinteha khayal rakh raha hai or mujhay ignore kar raha hai or maire devrani ne bohat sare gold ke jwekery pehne bhi hai jab ke mai bilkul simple hu. And real life mai mai married hu but bht paraishan hu mairay husband mujhay sath nahi rakhna chahtay.
Q: What to do if a wife asks her husband to make a promise to not even touch her till death (maut tak, married in 2015)? Must he make sabar?
Q: My wife does not like me. Can I live with imagining a girl (jannat wife)?
Q: I am asking this question for my aunt. My husband says that my father passed away when he was young because of my ghuna's. The reason being that he doesn't get along with me. My husband and his family are continuously abrupt and still expect me to do everything for them. My husband has issued me with two talaaqs and threatens me with a third for every difference between us in front of my children and their spouses and my grand children. The reason he does not go through with it is because we are married in community of property and he is afraid to lose the properties that have my name on them. He asks for my consent to sell the properties that have both our names on the deeds. I also have contributed to these properties financially and completed the deals on these houses. He then takes all the cash quietly from the sales and purchases homes for our unmarried daughters without my knowledge. We are living separately at the moment, he with our daughters and I am alone. We also live in different cities. The main reason for this query is that it really hurts me that he says I lost my father due to my ghuna’s. I’ve looked after his mother the best I could but she never appreciated it and told my husband I never did anything for her. Please advise me if his statements are true.
Q: I am married to a man who has already a first wife and children I am his second wife. I am very upset. I married him but my parents don't know About the marriage and his parents either don't know but his wife does. About our marriage, he lives with her I always fight with him over one thing I told him why don't you meet me more and for long time why always for few hours every 2 weeks because he lives three and a half hours far from where I live he doesn't text me in front of her, he doesn't call me in front of her but he does all this when he is with me. I feel hurt with this behaviour. I told him you are not treating me well and fair. All he has to tell me that he will be fair with me once I come live with him but my parents do not know about our nikah. So I told him you have to wait but you have to treat me fair in eyes of Allah. I am your wife. Please help me.