Q: I have been married for three years and have two babies. My husband is abusive, drinks and might be having affairs as well. He says he wants this marriage to work but I can't live in Pakistan being born from UK as he takes advantage of me there. People say he is mad as the way he behaves makes my life very very hard to compromise. He has bipolar and shouts and fights without any real reasons. Please I would love him to be normal again. What should I do or read?
Q: Meri shaadi ku 6 saal ho rahy he. Mery do bachy he. Dono larky he barha chaar saal ka chota do saal ka he magr pechle 1sal se meri bv bat bat mai naraz ho ky apne meky jati h kbi 2mahine to kbi 4 mahine guzrne k bad mafi mang k wapas ha chuki hy magr abi bi osy 2mahine phr se hore hy wo phr naraz hoky gai hy or jab bi wo naraz hoky meky jati h to bacho ko nai le jati hy jab mai ne waja pucha to muj se kehne lagi 'bachy tmare sat kush hy mere samne abi pori zindagi hy ap muje aazad kro mai ja k dosri shadi krogi' or yeh bat meri bv ne muje kehne k bad kagaz pe lekh k bi muje diya h. Mera sawal yeh hy k kia mai ain halat mai apni bv ko os k kehne k mutabiq talaq de sakta ho jab k bachhy apni maa k liye rote hy or maa une apne pas rakne ko teyar nai kia shariyat mai ais ky bare mai kuch h please koi raasta batae.
Q: A brother wants to divorce his wife. What is the correct procedure according to Hanafi Fiqh? What kind of Talaaq should the husband give?
Q: My question is regarding my own personality which I think is like a dual personality or I am a selfish person. I love my wife and respect her as well but when I see her speaking to family members, I feel jealous. I mean even if she is with her brothers and sisters I get upset and I get stressed. I pray five times but still my mind is at unrest. Please I need your help.
Q: My question is about that my husband does not pray regularly even if he got time. He is lazy and he get depressed in life and he can't do a proper job. He gets angry with his wife, kids and family for little things. I want to ask you that as a Muslim how many times I have to tell him to perform Salaah and practise Deen? What shall I pray or do to better my circumstance because I really want my husband and kids to be good Muslims and good Da'ees in Islam?
Q: I'm having problems with my marriage and I told all my problems to one Mufti who lives in Ajmer, India. I met him online. I have very serious problems in my family. So Mufti Arfaz says that wazifa won't solve all problems and He told me that he has to sacrifice a goat for me. He will go at night to graveyard and sacrifice the goat there, but he needs money for the goat. After I sacrifice the goat, I will get married within 48 hours. But my family found out that I tried to send money to Mufti Arfaz and I told them what he told me. They said that whatever he does is haraam. Even though his methods really work. They tell me not to speak to him and my dad fought with him. My parents just can't understand my sitiation that I'm helpless. But who is right Mufti Arfaz or my family?
Q: I am a revert Muslim and have been married for 6 years. Its been 6 months that my husband is seeing another girl and recently moved in with her a month ago. He comes home now and then just for an hour or so and keeps telling me his coming home and that he loves me. Please help me. The night I caught him with the girl, he was hiding behind the door. When I got him behind the door he laughed at me and I was so shocked Ya Allah his body was there but the head on the body was not his that just smiled at me. I am sad, heart broken and have two kids and don't know what to do. Please guide me and let me know what I can recite to bring him back home. This is not my husband the way he is now, he was a house person and always had time for his family and kids. We love him and miss him a lot. I believe with what I saw on his body that something like black magic has been done to him to keep him away from his family. Please help me.
Q: My mother often spoke some harsh things to my wife. I came to know these things from my wife later. What should I do in this case? As far as I know I can't not tell my mom that you are doing wrong. Please tell what should I do?
2. I and my wife decided that my Sala (wife's brother) will remain with me , but my mother told me don't do this. This is a wrong decision. In this case, what should I do?
Q: My mum got married to a divorced man 26 years back. Well my father now is 63 years old, talks to girls in front of my mum, give his card to them and asks them for dinner and has bad intentions which I can't even say. I am his daughter. We all know and I have myself saw him walking and touching ladies hands, gazing at them, watching porn videos and asking my mum to have anal sex. My father knows that Islam declared these thing haram but he does not have sense of it. He does not perform namaz. It seems that he is totally out of religion, he is a very very bad person. I don't even like him. Sometimes he says I will go out with girls have diner and will do anal sex when I get a chance. Many things I have herd myself. My mom says I spend my whole life with him bearing his bad words, abuses, his hand when he beats her, his belt etc, still he is like this as if she means nothing to him. He also makes fun of her. My mum is a sugar and blood pressure patient and sometimes she feels like her brain will burst. I love her and can't see her this way. My brothers are not helping mother and they are not interested. They shout at her. Only I am my mum's shoulder. Please tell me what should I and my mum do? It is getting out of control.
Q: Agar shohar ne kamaye or bivi bachchhe ka haq na adaa kare or bivi ki kamayi khaye to? Please answer. Bivi kab tak bardasht late?