marital problems

Shaadi me pareshaani

Q: Mera masla shadi ku 5 se 6 saal hogaye. Awlaad nahi he uska shohar or sasural walay shuru se sahi nahi hai asal mai shadi ka istikhara sahi nhi tha phr bhi shadi kar di gayi. Ab surat e haal ye he ke baat baat pe bezati ki jati he talaq ki dhamkiyan dewar tak izzat nahi kartay lekin me ne 5 saal se sabr kiya hua hy apne maikay walo tak ko nhi bolti meray shohar ki dusri shadi ka socha ja raha hy jab k mera ilaaj tak nhi krwaya jata aulaad k liye ek mahina ilaah hota hy phr saalo bhool jatay hy zameeni 0 pe zameenay li ja rhi hy lekin ilaaj k liye paisay nhi or ilaaj nhi. krwatay mera sabr jawab de gaya hy dil bhi bezaar hogaya hy her cheez se. Please mujhay koi raasta dikaye. Reply soon. Please reply in sab ka walidain ko b pata hy. Wo kya kahaygay ghr bithanay ke dar se sabr ka kehtay hy. Plz kitab khol batye ke koi bandish aulaad ki to nahi he. Kiyon ke humaray khandan mai aisa bohot hota hy. Help please koi raye de achi.

Marital problems

Q: Is it permissible for a momen (believer) woman who has young children to stay in the same house but different room with a husband who is acting hypocritically (Allah knows he wants to irritate his wife by refusing to pray and use of improper words, swearing etc. because he doesn't like his wife or he is really what he shows), or she should divorce, as she doesn't want to be divorced unless living with that kind of husband is Haram. If divorce is not mandatory she is ready to have saber until she is alive because Allah's satisfaction is more impotent then everything else to her.

Wazifa for marital problems

Q: I have been married for 15 years. Recently due to a financial problem my husband has distance himself from me saying that it's stress related. We are hardly together as a married couple should be. Please if there's a dua that I could read that would soften him and let us have the relationship we once had. I strongly believe in reading my duas daily but I'm not sure of anyone in specific.

Shaadi me pareshaani

Q: Mera masla shaadi ko 5 se 6 saal hogaye aulaad nahi he. Uska shohar or sasuraal walay shuru se sahi nahi hai asal mai shadi ka istikhara sahi nahi tha phr bhi shadi kr di gayi ab surat-e-haal ye hy k baat baat pe bezati ki jati hh talaq ki dhamkiyan dewar tak izzat nhi krtay lekin me ne 5 saal se sabr kiya hua hy apne maikay walo tak ko nhi bolti meray shohar ki dusri shadi ka socha ja raha hy jab k mera ilaaj tak nhi krwaya jata aulaad k liye ek mahina ilaah hota hy phr saalo bhool jatay hy zameeni 0 pe zameenay li ja rhi hy lekin ilaaj k liye paisay nhi or ilaaj nahi karwatay mera sabr jawab de gaya hy dil bhi bezaar hogaya hy her cheez se plz mujhay koi raasta dikaye.

Marital problems

Q: I and my husband have been married for four years now with one two year old son. Before our marriage we had a love relation for ten years. As we are cousins too, we had the most beautiful relation though with few fights. Just before getting married I was studying for USMLE but my husband who was my fiance stopped me had big fights and told me to leave it and study in Pakistan whatever I want to do. Two years after our marriage I did my specialization and started working in hospital from 9 to 2. Its been last one month my husband has strong objection on not doing it and leaving it. In between our marriage we had huge fights. My husband beat me several times very brutally and things have gotten to two talaaqs because of his anger. He has not given me any money for my personal expenses only for house hold and recently he took away money from me which he gave to save and told me he will not give me money as I do job and he will deprive me of it. I came to my parents home. He came and misbehaved and abused my parents. They came to know he beats me regularly and abuses me. They told me to leave him but he apologised and said he will not do it again and let me continue my profession. As I came back with him his attitude is still the same no change in it. His parents tell him in front of me to do second marriage. I would add here that he recently told me before going for hajj that he had been bisexual before marriage and has done infidelities multiple times with both men and women but after marriage has stopped. My heart has stopped loving and trusting him and I don't even like it when he touches me because his attitude towards me is still the same. Should I get separated? Is it ok for me to leave him or stay? I am unable to communicate with him because he will fight and hurt me. I don't want to destroy our relation but my heart no longer likes him.