Tahaarat

Washing after relieving oneself

Q: After defecating, I clean myself for a long time around and inside of the anus. After sometime again when I put my finger deep inside the anus (the innermost place where finger can reach) I still find stool there. It is very painful and time consuming and I keep on checking it even later. Please tell me the proper method of washing and should I ignore that which is inside of the anus?

Doubts regarding sperm

Q: I performed my fajr salaah with jammat. After I returned home, I went to take a quick shower before going to university. Last night I can't remember if I saw any thing or ejaculating at night but in the morning while washing between my leg and private organ they was kind of a fluff dirt not on my private they was nothing there. After I smelled my underwear, there was a little smell. Don't know if it was sperm but no sign at all of any najaasat. I just changed my life a week ago after committing a few major sins. By this happening it will make me stop my ibaadat and worship of Allah. I am not sure of what to do. My bedding is not messed. I started my missed salaahs. What do I do?

Doubts regarding purity

Q: My friend ate chicken and washed his hands and then he met me and touched my shirt then I noticed his hands and they were wet and then I found out that he ate chicken by asking him. His hands were wet when he touched me and I don't know whether the oil of the chicken was still there on his hands or not and I don't know if it is haram or halal (chicken). Is my shirt paak?

Bleeding lips

Q:

1. If my lips bleed and I lick my blood and then my lips are clean and there is no trace of blood on the tongue, are my lips and the tongue paak.

2. Due to sweat and scratching dirt remains in my nails and I made wudu and I read salaah and then after sometime I noticed dirt in my nails and I am not sure whether it was before wudu or after wudu. Is my salaah valid? Is this kind of dirt permeable.

Finding dirt on one's feet after ghusal

Q:

1. After ghusl, I noticed some small dirt on my feet but I'm not sure it came after ghusl or before. Is my ghusal valid?

2. I repeated the ghusal but I accidentally left out a very small (thread size) dead skin which if I observed it came close to a very small part of living skin. I poured water on top of it without scrubbing and I'm not sure if water will go to the closed parts of the skin. I realised this after praying and I didn't know that I just need to wash only the dead skin to complete my ghusl. So one day after, I completed the ghusl by washing the dead skin area. Was my ghusal valid even I washed it after a day?

Urine problem

Q: I am a mazoor as I suffer from urinary incontinence. I had a ghusl an hour befor jumuah. When I was at jumuah just before jamaat salaah commenced I felt a drop of urine coming out though I wasn't sure. The drop of urine can't soil my clothing as I wear a incontinence pad. Even if I remove the pad and check I won't be able to confirm if a drop came out as the pad is absorbent. I made namaaz like this. Was the namaaz excepted or do I have to repeat it.