Tahaarat

Q: If a place gets impure with urine and I touch that with a wet object and I  am certain that I would not see the urine traces on the wet object, in that case should I consider it impure?

Q: I am a mazoor suffering from incontinence of urine

1. Is reciting Qur'an shareef forgiven for me because of weak bladder?

2. During namaz urine keeps coming out because of weak bladder. I know my wudhu wont break but urine comes out at every action of my body and I can't control actions like (sitting, walking, putting pressure on bladder). So I know when I will be sitting a drop of urine will come out, so is my wudhu still valid or I have to make new wudhu? Remember I am mazoor suffering from urine incontinence from starting till end.

Q: I am a very doubtful person and I might be suffering from OCD but I am trying to recover slowly. Sometimes when I have to go somewhere at night like to a dinner with my parents I make wudu before I start getting ready so I can be sure to pray maghrib before I leave but when I don't get ready I will doubt if I my wudu has broken or not because I get discharge all the time but I have heard that this doesn't require wudu, but discharge when one thinks of something inappropriate does require wudu. With OCD I can't control thoughts that come into my head so I am trying to learn to just let them pass and not effect me because the more I try to get rid of bad thoughts the more they come. So I am trying to just let them pass. But when I think that did my wudu break, I say no then I am like did I get any bad thoughts and that brings bad thoughts into my mind. I can't control it. They will pass if I don't pay attention to them but if I obsess over it then it gets very stressful for me and I start to panic so I can never keep my wudu and always have to do it again. because a thought will come into my head and I can't control it. What do I do in this case because there is never enough time to go do wudu again because everyone is getting ready to leave so I either have to read namaz when I get home or make everyone upset because they have to wait for me and this happens all the time. I can never keep my wudu for longer than a duration of a namaz and sometimes even then I will get bad thoughts but I ignore those or else I would never be able to finish a single namaz. What do I do in this case do I always do wudu or can I just keep it as long as I haven't passed gas or went to the bathroom because this causes me a lot of hardship as I always have to renew my wudu before namaaz. Also if my zuhr got delayed because I was out and I prayed it as soon as I could at home and one hour later it was asr, do I do wudu again if the thoughts come because during a situation like this it becomes very hard to make wudu when I just did it an hour ago. Please give me advice on what I should do. I can't just stop the thoughts because me trying to do that just makes it worse. So i'm slowly trying to lean to lessen them as my OCD gets better. Please if you could offer some advice.

Q: I suffer from extreme ocd. My brother is blessed with a baby boy. The family put his nappy in the toilet bin. Does the bin became impure?

Q: A year back in my absence some people living in the house used to consume alcohol. When I came back I washed the utensils and made them clean. However I cleaned the glasses with liquid soap and water using my hand and not a sponge as I did not want impurity to spread. I also washed the glasses later on when some kitchen work was going on. Though I don't use those glasses but I feel that whenever it touches other utensils it makes it impure. Only recently I saw a black dot stuck on it. It could be dust etc as we don't use those glasses now. I'm being paranoid that what if I hadn't washed it properly those two times and it's impurity stuck. A pure utensil had touched the glasses and now I'm being very paranoid. I'm tired of this ocd problem of mine and sometimes I feel that religion is over burdening and I can't handle it. Please help me. As I fear that Allah will just not accept my worship and instead of praying I keep myself involved in all this.

Q: I have always been very doubtful and may have OCD so now I am trying to overcome this illness but I can never know what to do. I have a cold so my mother told me to take some steam it was from a pot that was from the previous owners of the house. They said they were Muslims but many Muslims here eat non halal meat. I don't know if the previous owners 5 years ago ate un halal meat or not. but they left a dish which my mom uses when anyone needs to take steam because she doesn't want the sick germs to go into her cooking pots. She has washed the pot before but I don't know if she read the kalima while she cleaned it. If I took steam from this dish am I napaak? Is the towel I put over my head while taking steam napaak? I have touched so many things after that are they all napaak? If I used the towel after wudu to wipe my face before praying did my wudu break and did my namaaz count? On the dish there were some orange/ red marks and took some very hot water from the dish and a kitchen towel to wipe and see if there were permenent but they came off. Now I don't know what they were from and if it was halaal or not and if I made the kitchen towel napaak? My mum thinks I'm crazy so she won't believe me about washing the towels because I am always making her wash everything but I just don't know what to do? Is the kitchen towel napaak? If someone uses it to dry their hands will they become napaak too? I am too stressed out about these and it is really hard for my recovery from being a doubtful person what do I do?

Q: Is Deeni talk permissible while one is making wudhu, e.g. someone asks you to explain a deeni masala to him?  

Q: If my hands are napaak with urine no matter whether they are wet or dry and I touch something, if there are no signs of impurity on what I touched, no colour or stain and if there is smell then that will eventually go, do I have to wash what I touched?

Q: I would really appreciate your guidance on this. I am a very doubtful person and might even have OCD. Sometimes when I wake up for school in the morning I think I had a wet dream, I am not sure because i never remember having an orgasm in the dream. So in the mooring I want to make ghusal but there is no time so I decide to make it as soon as I get home. 1) If I wash my face and use my towel to dry it will my towel now be napaak? 2) During school if I need to watch a video for research and use my headphones will they become napaak? Because sometimes there will be a little earwax on them. 3) If I try on my mom's makeup like lipstick or eyeliner only when I am at home and then wash my face will the make up be napaak? If it is, how do I clean it?

Q: If you could please give some guidance on the situation it would help a lot. I have heard that females only need to do ghusal when they have an orgasm or wet dream. I am a very doubtful person and 1) sometimes when I am sitting I will feel some tingling once or twice but I don't feel an orgasm, do I need to perform ghusal? 2) This happens allot and causes me lots of stress. When I go to sleep I will see a dream and feel tingling but don't feel or remember feeling an orgasm, do I have to make ghussl? I get vaginal discharge all the time so its very hard for me to check if there is extra wetness. Please give some advice.