vow

Breaking a vow

Q: I had made a vow that if I do a particular sin ever again in my life I will pray so many number of Rakaats. However I am finding it difficult to fulfill the vow because I keep relapsing into the sin. May Allah help me abstain.Am I allowed to change or break the vow so I no longer have to pray those many numberof rakaats?

Tawaaf or umre ki manaat maangna

Q: Mene ayk question poochna tha. Please reply zaroor kijiye ga. Me makkah me rehti ho apne husband ke sath. Mene tawaaf or umre ki manat mangi thi to manat tu meri pori hogayi thi lekin tawaf or umro ki tadaad zyada he like 100 mera 1 beta he 1 year ka problem ye heke me crowd ki waja se or ghar ke kaamo ki waja se kar nahi sakti kafi koshish ki krne ki lekin complete nahi howe tu ap mujhe bata de ke me tawaf or umre ki jagah nawaafil ya roze rakh sakti ho?

Mannat se ruju' karna

Q: Mera sawal ye hai ke maine ek gunah se bachne ke lia ye kaha ke agar mai ye gunah karunga To ek mahine ka roza or rozana pachas rakat nafil padhunga magar mujhe dar ke kahi phirse mujhse wo gunah na ho jae or mai ye shart pura na kar saku to ap bataiye ke kya mai apne is qaul rojoo kar sakta hu ya nahi?

Making a vow to give sadaqah

Q: If a vow was made that for every R100 a person receives he will give R 20 as sadqah to poor people as long as there is no debt owing to anyone.

1.Can he buy gifts with this money and give it to his family, even though the family are well to do?

2. Can he use the money to sponsor items to the musjid or put the money in the musjid box?

3. If the vow is broken once does the person still have to keep to the vow subsequently?

4. If a person can't remember if he made the vow verbally or in his mind, will the vow be valid?