Talaaq

Q: Islam mein iylaa' kisay kehty hain? Kya iylaa' kay liya Allah ki qasam ka kehna zarori ha? Please mujy batayein.

Q: Mera masla yeh ha ke main ne ghar walon ki marzi k bina ja k shadi ki jiss mein sirf ladke ka bhai or walida mojood thi or nikaah k liye 2 molvie sahab they or aik 2 camera men or ladkiyan jo k ladke k bhai k dpst thi. Lekin meri taraf say gawah sirf ladke k aik dost ka naam likha tha jab k woh dost wahan nikaah k waqto jood nahi tha. Ladke k ghar walon ne lalach mein yeh nikah karwa liya tha ta k ladka baher chala jaye lekin halat bohut khaarab hote gaye or ladke ne aik bar "main tujhe talaq deta hoon" or dposri bar message per likh kar kaha k tu meri taraf say ab azaad ha khuda ki qasm" keh kar 2 bar talaq day di ha. Mujhe maloom karna ha kya yeh nikaah valid tha tha Astaghfirullah sirf zinna mein shumaar hua? Or kya us hisaab say yeh talaq bhi ho gayi? Kya talaq aik bar dena kafi ha ya teen bar dena zaroori ha? Ab mere waldain chahte han k mera nikah dobara sab k samne proper tareeqe say kar den lekon ab ladkay k ghar wale us ko kehte han k sirf is he shart per k agar woh foran tumhain baher bula len tab lekin ladka ab razi nahi hota q k us k nazdeek yeh nikaah hua he nahi q k gawah mojood he nahi they mere liye koi. Main bohut pareshan hoon ajeeb depression sa ho gaya ha. Mera dill kisi or mard say shadi k liye bhi nahi manta or khandan bhar mein kisi ko nahi pata. Main janti hoon mujh say bohut bari ghalti hui ha lekin ab samejh mein he nahi aa raha k mujhe kya karna chahiye or is sab situation k kya hall ha? Pehle to mujhe woh ladka wese pasand tha lekin main ne sache dill say nikah kiya bina kisi lalach k or abhi tak mere dill mein us k liye shohar jesa he rutba ha halan k us ne her tarah say contact he khatam kar diya ha mujh say. Please Allah app ko jazaye khair day mujhe guide kijiye k yeh sab jo hua or ab mujhe kya karna chahiye? Yeh sab main apne ghar walon say share nahi kar sakti. Or Mufti sahban say poochne per bhi dar lagta ha q k woh thore sakht hote han aise maslon per ghussa kar jate han or raha saha hosla bhi khatam ho jata ha. App say bohut himmat kar k pooch rahi hoon. Baraye meherbani meri situation ko samjh k bataiye.

Q: Kia biwi ko dushman kehne se bhi talaq hojati he jabkeh saans men alehdgi men kaha jai.

Q: Mere husband ne meri cuzin se phone par baat ki or usne bhola usko ko tumhari SAS chahti he talakh or mere husband ko meri ammi par gussa aya or unn ko yeh Maloom tha ke ese talakh nehi hoti or meri Cuzin ko bi. Mere husband ne meri ammi ko sunane ke liye talakh bhol diya Three times bhola talakh or bola jao suna do. Kya ese talakh hoti he? Phir mene husband se baat ki to Unno ne bhola meri niyaat thi hi nehi. Mujeh pata tha ese nehi hoti! Mene suna bi nehi he Kya ese talakh hoti he?

Q: Janab mangeetar ne apni sosral walo se jagrra howa bad ma mangeetar k behan ni call k ow samjani ki koshish kerte te to mangeetar ni is alfazo ma apne behan no kaha ki ma onko talaq,talaq,talaq deta ho )) behan ki ilawa kese ko pata nahii ki mangeetar ne istrah alafaz bol dye hain ..ab dono family ki baij solah Hagye hain to rehnomaye kare talaq hogaye gain ya nahi? agar hain to dobara kistrah nikah kiya jain khamoshi se ki batt sharghee towar pe teek ho our kese ko pata b na chalee ke keya howa ta.

Q: Kaafi arsa pehlay aik larkay ka nikah kisi choti umer ki larki say howa larkay ki umer 30 sal larki ki umer 12 ( baligh) sal, rokhsti na hoi k larki ki umer ziada ho gi to rokhsti kar dain gay, aur nikah ka b mohala daron ko ilam na tha, is doran larka larki ko ghar bolata raha aur aik kamray m un ki mulaqat hoti thi mulaqat k doran dono ki sharmgahain aik dosray say touch hoin aur dakhool say pehlay hi mada mani b kharaj howa, laikan dono is dar say k koi kamray m aa na jay saray kapray nai utaartay thay kamray m aanay k 2 raastay thay aik m darwaza lga tha aik m sirf parda tha koi b ba asani andar a sakta tha, larka samjta tha k wo larki say us waqat ba asani hambistry kar sakta hay jab ghar m koi na ho laikan aisa moqa nai mila, agar larki ki awaz paida ho jati to bohat beizti hoti q k hambistry ki ijazat na thi, mojooda soortay haal m larkay ka poora irada tha hambistry ka, k wo ahista ahista dakhool kar lay ta k awaz paida na ho laikan wo nai kar ska , q k dakhool say pehlay mada mani kharaj ho jata tha, baad m larki nay larkay ko majboor kiya k usay talaq day , talaq ho gai, talaq k alfaaz ye thay m tohain talaq daita hon, m tomhain talaq daita hon, m tomhain talaq daita hon, ab larki bari ho gai hay wo dobara nikah karna chahtay hain wo dobara nikah kar saktay hain ke nahi?

Q: Dil ke qasd ke baghair sochna keh biwi nahin dushman he kia talaq hojati he jabkeh saans se awaz arahi ho?

Q: My question is that I was having some discussion with my husband but when he came towards me then I pretend to go downstairs because I was on the stairs then my husband said (tumhein kaya howa ha Ma ba kuch nahi phir kaha Acha aisay hi rehna ha tu apna intazam karo Ma iss kich kich matlab larai Yani fight sy thang hon bolay tumhari b setting Ho jaiya gi or meri Ma na bola intazam karo ghussay sa Ma na bola Mary husband bolay kaya issi tarha hi zindgi guzarni ha Ma itni mehnat kerta hon aisa kuch bola Mary husband ny kaha k iger rehna ha tu teek tarha Ho ker rahu Ma Na kaha Ma na kuch nahi kaha Ma chup Ho ker khari hon tu Mary husband ny jawab diya tu Ma na b tumhein kuch nahi kaha please answer me iss sa rishta per kuch Asar hota ha? I am worried.

Q: My question is I went to the other room where my daughter and husband was sitting I just opened the door he just turn on the heater to warm up the room he shouted at me that come in and shut the door I closed the door but culdnt properly shut then he shouted more then I shut it properly he started speak I was silent actually we r expecting for visa so am telling whole story that u understand so ma room as baat kiya bagaire Barton utha k janay lagi tu kaha ab baat kiya bagaire ja rahi hon tu ma na kaha k ma app as baat nahi kerny ayi thi tu bas start Ho Gaya he said ( kam Ho tu Jaan jhotay matlab visa lagnay ki baat Ho rahi ha kaha kam Ho tu Jaan jhotay or phir kahi or zindgi start ki jaiya waisay b tum rehnay ky qabil nahi rahi kaya maray palay per gayi ha ma chup chap darwazy per khari Ho ker sunti rahi or Roma start ker diya kyn k mujy itna kuch suna para jb k koi itni Bari baat b nahi Ma apni beti Ho ly ker dosray room mein aa gayi aur wo boltay rahay mujy clear awaz nahi aa rahi thi ab 2 sawal hain ju baat maray Samany hoiyi kaya un baton sa koi farak parta ha dosra Jin baton ki awaz mujy nahi ayi clear tu un ky baray mein ma kaya sochu kyn ma buht prashan hon pata nahi mufti sahib meri zindgi ky sath kaya Ho raha ha please guide me.

Q: Mera question ha ke chaar saal pahlay maray husband ny talaq Mashrot ki thi sach tu ya ha k mara Allah Janata ha k mujy wo shart yaad hi nahi aa rahi ha mufti sahib ma buht prashan hon soch soch ker thak si gayi hon jb kaha tha tab shayad wo baat yaad Ho gi ab mujy achi tarha tu nahi yaad lakin Ho sakta ha k past mein mujy wo cheese yaad Ho or ma na ker b li Ho kyn k ab baat phir wohi ha k baat pori yaad nahi lakin aik maray Janay walay hain ya tb ki baat ha jb maray husband ny talaq Mashrot ki thi or meri un janay waly sa kuch time ky baad baat hoiyi thi to uss ny mujy sa poucha tha k tumhein pata ha k tumhein talaq Ho gayi ha tu tub shayad mujy wo baat yaad Ho gi jis per maray husband ny shart lag ayi thi lakin ab ya yaad nahi aa raha ha k jb uss admi ny mujy kaha tha tb ma na wo cheese ker li thi ya uss ky baad muj sa wo kam howa lack of knowledge uss waqat ma kisi mufti sa consult nahi ker saki or wo bat mujy completely bhool chuki hon mind per zor zor dal k thak chuki hon kaya karoon suppose iger maray husband ny kaha tha k ( ab tum na larai ki ya shayad ab aisa mou banaya tu tumhein talaq Ho gi) that's suppose am not sure lakin ab mujy kaya pata tb kaya mou banaya tha ma na Ho sakta ha k ma na wo cheese ker li Ho bhool ky guide me hope u understand my questiin.