Talaaq

Q: Meri shaadi ko 3 saal ho gaey hain. Is doran hamary aksar jhagry huy hain. Or har jhagry meray husband mjhy yahi kehty hain ke mjh se talaaq ly lo. Dow saal pehlay unho ny aik talaaq dy di thi par woh phir razi ho gaey. Mera 2 saal ka aik beta hai. Or ab 20 din pehlay unho ny mjh se phir jhagra kia mjh pe bht galt or jhotay ilzam lagay. Phir unho ney mjhy kaha k phr tm lo mjh se talaaq, thori dair baad unho ny kaha tm meri trf se tm farig ho. Meray ghr se chali jao par my abhe b oan k sath rehti hun. My hargiz talaaq ni chahti hun. Unho ny jhagry k baad bht dafa meray qareeb ana chaha. Phir my ny mna kr dia. Please mujhe btayin eas sb situation k baad mera oan k sath rehna jayiz hai or kya mera rishta ab barkrar hai na?

Q: Mera masla ye hea ke mari ek cousin hea jis ki shaadi ko taqreban 18 saal ho gaye hain shoro ke 5 ya 6 saal to bohat khusi se guzar gaye leken us ke baad sohar or biwi me doriya bharti gai es sare arse me sohar ne biwi ko la taadad baar ye kaha hea ke (me ne tum ko talaaq de deni hea or mari tarf se tum farigh ho or mari tarf se tum azaad ho ya ye khena ke me ne tum ko azaad keya or ye baat sohar ne gawhoun ki mojodgi me bola he wo bhi kai baar. ab halaat ye hain ke dono sohar or bivi last 3 years or 2 month se alag alag re rahe hain or es arse me un ka koi jismani taaluq bhi nahi raha. Jab ke biwi har hafte apne bacho se milne apne sohar ke gahar jaati hea. Aap se ye maloom karna hea ke kya en me en dono wajohaat ki waja se talaaq waaqe hoi hea ya nahi. Ab mojodha sortehaal ye hea ke ye cousin apne sohar se talaaq chaati hea or apni new zindagi shoro karna chaati hea jis ke lye us ne adalat jane ka faisala kar lyea hea aap agar quran or hadees ki roshni me ye bata de ke kya un dono me talaaq ho gai hea ya nahi?

Q: Mera sawal ye he apni biwi ko teen maah pehle ek talaq di us ke baad ham dunoki raza mandi ho gai meri biwi hamla he ab mene guse me usko do bar yani talaq talaq bol dia meri niat us waqat teen talaq pura karni nahi tha me bhul chuka tha k mene ek bar pehle bi talaq ka lafaz bol chuka hun ur mene apni biwi ko us waqat yeh hi bola ab do bar talaq bol dia ek bar rah gea he tum jub chaho mangh Lena. Ab kia surtehal he talaq ho gai ya nahi?

Q: Sirf teen dafa talaq mazaaq me kehne se talaq ho jaygi?

Q: May nay apni bewi ko us kay bar bar kehnay par gusssay may a kar fone par 3 bar talak di jabkay may nay uska name lay kar bhe talak nahin di na ho koi gawah maujood na hi hi may nay talak ki neeyat ki thee to kia talak howi?

Q: Agar ayk shaks ne apni biwi ko ayk martaba larai me ayk martaba talaaq di thi or kuch arse baad ayk martaba dubara larai me ayk martaba phir talak de di to is ke mutalik sharai hukam kia hai? Wazih kar den?

Q: I am 28 years old. I got married in 2005 and I took khula after 5 years. I have a girl from my 1st husband. He had an affair with another girl before marriage but he married me because of pressure from his parents and used to send me to work and he was not working. Later I got married to another person after two years of my khula and I have a baby boy from him (7 months old). The problem is my second husband tortures me mentally. Gali galoj karte hain. He even beated me when I was pregnant. He doubts on me unhone jhut kahkar shadi ki humse unho ne jo bhi bataya wo sab galat tha wo chahte hai ke hum unke pair ki juti bankar rahe, gali ke siva bat nahi karte owr jhut to bahot bolte hai namaz nahi parte. Islam se koso dur hain. Allah maaf kare he forced me for haram sex (anal) whenever I was in my monthly period. Even during pregnancy also he wanted but I said baby ko risk hoga zabardasti mana karne par bhi wo nahi ruke. Even delivery ke bad dusre din hi he wanted to do. He tried to but as I was in mayeka he couldn't force me. Last 3 months se hum waldain ke yahan aaye hue hai. Pata nahi ke kya karna chahiye kuch samajh nahi araha 2 masoom bache hai. Unka kya hoga. Ye bat humne waldain se nahi kahi sabto chahte hai hum kaise b nibhale ye zindagi. Dunya jeene nahi degi. Second husband to kahte hai 3rd marad mubarak tujhe. His language is too rude. Please suggest what should I do? Muslim woman 3 nikah karsakti hai?

Q: Mera sawaal hai k ek shaks ne apni biwi ko 1 talak e baain di, phir biwi ke 3 haiz bi guzargaye, aur unka nikah bi nahi hua. Uske baad shohar ne phir agar talak e rajaee di to kya 2 talak hogi ya ek hi hogi pehli wali? Kyuki unhone nikah bi nahi kiya aur iddat b guzargayi thi.

Q: When a Talaqul Mughallazah is given, for the couple to get back together, does it require only the wife to marry again or the husband as well?

Q: Maine 2 saal pehle 1 larki se court me nikah kiya kyu k na os ka baap shadi k khilaf tha. Maine jaise hi nikah kiya oss us k ghar main chor diya bagher hath lagaye. Main kisi ki badnami nahi chahta ta bs sirf majboor karna chahta ta us k waled ko. Lekin wo pir b na mana aur wo waha se  apni beti aur tamam ghar k afrad ko le kar afghanistan chale gaye. (Sorry main likna bhool gaya tha unka taluq afghanistan se ta.) Mere ghar me b sab log muje har waqt majboor karte k ye nikah tor do aur us k ghar main bi yahi haal tha. Akhir majboor hokar maine osse phone par 3 dafa talaq ka kaha. Mufti saab main ye jana chahta hoo k kia main dobara uss larki se shadi kar sakta hoon?