Naseehat

Q: Meray parents ne meri mangni meray chacho ki beti se karae hai jo bht achi hai lakan mujy wo pasand nahe, me love marriage karna chata hoon lakin koi meri baat nae manta. Mera dil hr waqt khafa tense rehta hai zindagi sy dil bhar gaya hai, har time khafa koi choti b baat kr day koi tou gussa a jata hai meray mn bardast ki haad khatam ho gaye hai. Aap koi dawa batain jis sy mera dil khush rahay and jo mn chata hoon wo hoo n ya jo Allah ko manzoor hai os mn mera dil motmain ho jaye. Aap k jawab ka talab gar.

Q: Mujhe aisa koi problem nahi tha. Phir ab mujhe kuch samajh nahi aa raha he. Har wakt muje ajeeb Shaitaani waswase aate hain. Gande khiyaal jab ke may paanch wakt namaz parhta hu or har wakt wuzu may rehta hu. Songs bohat kam sunta hn bohat he zayada kam TV bhi kam or movies bhi hafte may ek bar. Muje koi wazifa bataen Quran se jiski waja se muje shaitani waswase na aye.

Q: Mere pe bachpan se kala jaadu liya ja raha hai or ab haal yeh hai har waqt bemar, yadasht bht kharab, namaz wagera bhi nahi parhi jati. Mein bht pareshan hun is maslay ka hal ye socha hai mein ne ke quran pak hifz kerun or noori ilm hasil kerun kam se kam akhrat to mehfooz ho jae. Is muamlay muje btaen ke noori ilm kaha se hasil kiya jae authentic noori ilm ke amil ki talash muje.

Q: Mere husband aaj kal bahot pareshan rehte hai karobar k silsile me. Wo meri har baat ko ignor krte hai. Actually wo gulf me rehte hai. Jab bhi me kehti hu mujhe apne sath rakho chahe wo gulf me ho ya apne desh wo is baat per mujhse jhagadte hai. Humesha choti choti baat per ladte rehte hai. Please mujhe kuch aisi Quraani dua de jisse Allah kare humari mohabbat mazboot ho aur ladna chod ker mujhe humesha unke saath rakhe.

Q: Mera bara bhai us ki age 23 hai koi kam nhe krta job ka bolo to larta hai har waqt computer or games me hi hota hai ghar me reh kar nafsiyati mareez banta ja raha hai hr waqt gandagi ka waham hota hai khawab me b gandagi pakti hui dekhta hai. Mery Abu ki death ho gy hai Ami abi iddat me hi hai koi aisa wazifa bataien k wo job krny lagy or uski job lag jae q k jub b job ka hony lagta hai uski tabiat kharab ho jati hai or migarane shuru ho jata hai.

Q: Aap se sawaal ye he ke jab koi surah khas kar baqarah ki tilawat yah audio sunni jay to hert beat fast honay lag jatty hye or sanz pholnay lagti haye jessy k bhaag k aye ho or sanz pholnay laggy but aesa har bar ni hutta kaby kaby sawal ye hay k easa kis wajah sa or ku hutta hay iss ki kia wajuhat ho sakty hay. Me aik dam kia huway pani bhi le rahi ho. Hakeem saab ss bas ye explain kar dee.

Q: Manay phly bhi sawal arsal ki tha ager aik aurt wehum our weswasy ki mareez ho. Quran sun rahi ho aur lufz (unfusihim) any pur kisy weswasy ki waja sa khud kalami ma keh da yay to quran ka lafz ha ya to kaha ja sukta ha alfaz serf etnay hi boly zehen ma. Allah ki zaat muraad ho. Wo lufz bhi na boly bus lufz sun ker serf etna keh day yay to quran ka lufz hah ya to kaha ja sakta he zuban se, ya hi lufz ada karay. Baki woh lufz aur allah ki zaat ka mutuliq weswsay ya khiyal zahen ma ho to is ka kia kufara ha? Kia is sa Imaan our nikh pur asur ho ga jab ka mera kufer ka khial na tha bus wesway ki waja sa keh dea shitan mujy allah ka bary ma buray weswsay dal rah tha ma na apni taruf ya sooch ker ya to quran ka lufz ha our acha lufz ha aur alfaz keh deayay mujy pata ha ya ba mani jumla ha lakin mujy iman our nikah ka bary ma wehum ho gaeya ha mujy kuch nufseaty mesla ha jo khial zehn ma a jata ha woh zehn sa nahi niklta please mujy is ka hul batany. Muj sa weswason ki waja sa ba many sa jumlay nikal jaty ha halanka mera koi muksud nahi hota pher mujy apny lman our nikha ki feker ho jaty ha. Please mujy batany asy halut ma man kia karon ma bary tention ma hon our dosra jumla ma bolnay to ya lagi thi khana kaba ki tarf monh ker ka nahi thokna caheyy lakin ma na do teen bar ya keh dea khana kaba ki taraf monh ker kay thokna chahy nahi yani nahi. Bad ma kha chahyey phly keh dea ma na gult jumla bol dea ha is ki waja sa ma itny den sa tention ma hon phir meney socha kay tention leney say behtar hai app say rahunamai hasil karoon. Please answer den.

Q: Agar kisi ke walid (baap) ne apne bache ko bad-dua di ho aur sath me ye bhi kaha ho ke bap ki bad-dua wapis nahi aati, aur uska bacha shadeed bemaar ho jata hay aur kafi elaaj karane ke bawajood koi hal nahi hota. To aesi soorat me kya, kya jae? Agar bap ki bad-dua wapis nahi aati to is mushkil se kese nikla jae?