wife

Shaadi se pehle zina karna

Q: Mera sawal ye hai ke agr biwine shaddi de se phale sex kar chuki hai ek se ziyada afrad ke sath wo bhi anginat martaba aur shaddi ke bad agr wo apne shohar se iske bareme batati hai to use nikha me rakhna chaye ya nahi rakhna chaiye ya fir talq dena chaiye? Aur abhi bhi us ka dil jise zina kiya us me thoda bahot atka huwa hai jise ke sath zina kiya sabo ki shaddi hogaye hai aur unko ek se do bacce bhi hai. Aise halat me kya kare meharbani karke baye Shariyat kya hukum deti hai is bareme? Mai mere bhai ki pareshani aur nahi dekhsakta.

Wife masturbating the husband

Q: My question is that I have been married since 2004. She is often busy with kids and we don't find time to have pleasures with each other. Masturbation is not allowed in Islam but if your wife lets you masturbate with her own hands is it allowed. Secondlly, after having long intervals is it allowed to masturbate with using hands like while taking shower throw water on penis to feel satisfied or relaxed and to avoid wrong doings outside?

Wife having affairs with other men

Q: I have been married for fourteen years. I have three daughter. For the past seven years my wife had affairs with different men and I tried every time to speak to her to repent but the affairs just happen over and over year after year. As a result of this my life been constant worry with no peace of mind. It is because I loved her so much I just tried to save the marriage every time. I have my brother and my parents here to stop this marriage but in my heart I still love her. How do I occupy my mind through this talaaq process because it feels like I am scared but I don't want to go back to this life. As I know myself I will try to go back and in past that is how it happen over and over. I forgave her but her affairs never stop. I gave her one talaaq seven years back and I wanted to know if I can give her the rest two talaaqs not in anger in any way, but just so that I can't go back to that life.

Covering the faults of others

Q: I don't know if my heart has truly forgiven my wife for this unforgettable act she committed (adultery). We are still together but I can't seem to forget and I can't seem to get over it. It is really bringing such pain within my heart and it's almost 3 years past. I know I have to be strong but I can't stop thinking about it. Is this because I didn't really forgive or is this just what I must live with. Please advise me how can I get past this and live a normal life with my wife without the memory of this betrayal?

Can the wife give the husband zakaat

Q: I am very concerned regarding zakaat. I got married last year and my husband is not well settled yet. He is completing his education and spending all his money on his family as being the eldest. With my job I support him and I feel happy for that. My question is he has taken a lot of loans from many people for establishing his business. Can I offer my zakaat to him so he can undo his loans and become a little easy, as he cannot save a single coin from his salary and I've to take out Rs 30k annually. I'm only worried about his loans. Other household expense I can share, but for loans can I give him zakaat?