Q: I'm far away from my wife and can not manage to go see her as I am in jamaat, looked at her photo in phone while in toilet, and suddenly I could not control myself, the semen came out, I don't know what are the steps forward. As I know it's a sin but I was very desperately in need. And I'm in a 3 chilla, and it's getting quite difficult for me, as it's only my first chilla.
Q: At home, can a woman wear night dress for husband at night/daytime?
Q: What is the ruling if a husband does not fulfill the wishes of his wife so in return, the wife disobeys him. Is this correct?
Q: My wife keeps falsely accusing me of having affiars. I told her that it is not true and we dont reach any conclusion as she only wants me to accept that I had affairs and must apologise. I cannot do it as she is incorrect. She says she has evidence but refuses to bring it forward. Our marriage is in turmoil. What to we do as we cannot come to agreement. I suggested councelling she refuses.
Q: When we say to our wife or children "I love you". Should we have the intention for the sake of Allah I love you?
Q: Mera sawal ye he k islam me aik aisi aurat k liye kya hukam he jo banjh ho mard ko aulad na de sakti ho our phir zid kr khawand ko majboor kia ho k dusri shadi shoher na kre..aisi aurat ko mazeed nikah me rakhna theek he ya nahin?
Q: I want to know if I can sell my wife's gold set? My wife is not happy that I sell it. Does Islam give me permission to sell her gold set since we are have financial issues.
Q: My question is that, if nikah has terminated with the death of the husband then why can she still bath her deceased husband?
Q: I am a doctor by profession and the only son of my parents. Currently I am working abroad. I am married and I have one son also. After my marriage ,once I saw one tablet called "VIAGRA" that is used for prolonged sexual desire in a book of my wife who is also my first cousin. I inquired from her and informed my parents and her parents and they just told me that "some of her class mates must have put this tablet in her book". I am a doctor myself but because of my parents I ignored it. She was going to college even after marriage. In those days I was working 350 km away from my hometown and was going there 2-3 days in a week and 3 days I was at home. One day I received a call from some unknown person. He said to me "your wife is coming to college in the college van but she is not going to college. Please brother take care". I went to her collage and inquired from the principal whether my wife was present in college in the last few days. He confirmed that "she was absent for the last 7 days". I informed my parents as well as her parents but they told me not to tell anyone otherwise it will be a stigma for our family etc. Anyhow I compromized again. After that incident, one night she ran away from my home and I caught her mobile phone with all the private chats with some fellow. The next morning she came to her parents home and demanded her mobile phone to contact her boyfriend. Even then, because of insistance of my mother, I lived with her. Allah gave me a beautiful son, Alhamdolilah. The same year I got a visa for Maldives and I am working here. I kept my wife in Maldives while she was pregnant as my mother was insisting to keep her along with me even though I was not interested because of all these things.
In short, my kid and my wife were living with me here in Maldives and I forgot all the previous things. But again I caught her with a Christian fellow who is a teacher and living near my quarters. I got all the proofs also that they were having sexual relationship with each other from their chat. He wrote "do u remember that night u were creating sounds and we did sex in different positions etc". After this incident, I sent her safely to Pakistan and did'nt talk to her nor kept any kind of relationship with her even though she was living in my home. When I went for vacation for 14 days, I was sleeping in another room. Again my parents are insisting that live with the girl but I dont want to.
One more thing "She never ever accepted her mistake even after getting caught by me".
Secondly, alhamdolilah I didn't commit any zina or kept any sort of relationship with any other female. From her chats I've come to know that because of her family she is living with me otherwise she doesn't want to live with me. What reply should I give my parents. If I say that I don't want to live with her, they will not feel good. What should I do?
Q: Agr koi mard apni biwi ko mare pite or us k koi huqooq pore na kare to kia us p nikaah jaiz ni uska nikah khatam ho jana chahiye?