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Parents not happy with one engaging in extra ibaadat

Q: I am a very hard worker and I have studied btech but I have one paper. That too will be cleared within two months. But my parents are in trouble and somewhat sad about me that I spend a lot of my time in ibaadat so can't Allah make everything easy that my parents will be happy because when I do prayers more, then I feel like I am blessed and everything goes good, but sometimes like in morning due to some home work, I feel from inside if somebody tells me anything and how should I make my parents happy.

Fear to speak to one's parents regarding nikaah

Q: I am 25 (male) from a well-off family and presently pursuing PhD in earth sciences with a decent fellowship but you know the environment here at the university not very pious (there is co-education in the university) and one finds it very difficult to control his emotions. Nikkah seems to be the best solution to prevent oneself in such a dirty environment but the problem is that I am not able to communicate the same to my parents. Now I request you you if you could spent some moments of your precious time to suggest me how to approach my parents for the same. I am ready to marry any girl from any nationality unless she is a pious and practicing Muslim.

Making ta'leem at home

Q: When I try to give dawah to my parents my parents bash me with yelling and other things by saying that Oh so now you're so old to tell us what is right. So what should I do? I don't want to argue with them. So should I stop giving them Dawah?

Maa baap ki khidmat karna

Q: Sawere ke waqt mereko khwaab aaya jismein maine aur mere ammi kisi ek dargah ke paas hai aur ammi dargah mein ek paani ka hause hai jahan se ammi jaana chahti hai lekin maine ammi ko mana kardiya kyun ki mere ammi ke leg ka operation hua so hai aur woh theek se chal nahi paati. Paani mein unka pair phisal jaata bolke maine mana kiya tho meri ammi mujhe gusse se yeh boli ke tu 20.07.16 tabhi maine ammi ke qadam bosi ki aur itne mein main neend se jaagaya. Please aap mujhe iska tafseer bataye.

Khairaat and Sadaqa

Q:

1) I would like to know the difference between khairaat and sadaqa and to whom and when we can give these?

2) I have my pay around 440 USD, in which I send amount to my family. Do I have to give zakat on this?

3) For job purpose, I am living in another city of Pakistan. How can I serve my parents, as Islam says that we have to make "KHIDMAT" for our parents?

Waalidayn owr baro ke saath mahabbat, adab, aur tawaadhu ke saath pesh aana

Q: Main bohat pareshan hon apne ghar waalon se kyun ki gharpe walidain ke saat badhzuban istemaal hoti hai. Lekin meri walidain ko aur bhaiyon ko bora nahi lagta. Lekin main ek haq baat karta hon to main sab ki nazron mein bora banjaata hon. Aisa kyun? Aur mere chote bhai aur mere bade bhai log walid ya waalda se badhzuban se baat karte hai to hamare bade hasi mein baat ko woda dete hain. Aur main thuda ghusse mein baat karta hon to os baat pahad se bhi bada bana dete hain aisa kyun hora hai mere saath? Agar ghar pe koi ghalat horaha hota hai to main faoran moonh pe booldeta hon kya ye mera rookna ghalat hai kya mera ghusse jayaz nahi hai kya main ghalat hon bataiye main kya karon?