Maa baap aur marhum ke pair ku choouna
Q: Kya Islam me maa baap aur marhum ke pair choouna jayaz hai?
parents
Whose right is the mahr?
Q: Who asks for the dowry, the bride or the parents? If dowry is the right of the bride, can the parents disagree with her if she accepts less mahr?
Performing umrah and conveying the reward to one's parents
Q: Can I perform umrah for my parents as they are alive?
Serving and pleasing one's parents
Q: What are the ways in which we can serve and please our parents?
Respect for parents
Q:
1. A girl is unable to love her father because he hurts her feelings, will she be accountable for not loving him?
2. After marriage girl should give importance for her parents or husband's parents?
3. A girl is happy in her husband's house because her in laws treats her well than her own parents. So naturally girl starts loving her in laws more than her parents will she be accountable before Allah for not giving so much of love for own parents? Please note that this girl had to suffer emotionally while she was at her parent's home due to some of the behaviour of her parents.
4. Will we be accountable in the court of Allah if we have little hatred for someone because that person used to hurt our feelings through his/her words or behaviour?
Girl not happy to get married to the boy her parents have chosen for her
Q: My marriage proposal is going on and my family members selected one boy for me. My family likes this proposal as the boy is hafiz e quran and amil too. I m a Modern muslim girl,i wear hijab ,I follow farzs things about islam and some times I do not follow each and every sunnah. I do pray 4 times salaah (namaz). Many a times I miss fajar salaah also. I read quran but not daily. I fast whole ramadan month. but other then this I do not do taraaweeh namaz in the month of ramadan. My inner feelings says that i should not marry this boy as I am afraid to marry him as he is hafiz e quran and alim and he follows each and every sunnah. If I marry him I also have to obey everything what he says if I do not listen then I will commit a sin so I m very much afraid and said no to this proposal initially the other reason to say no to this proposal is he is not having pleasant personality but my parents are happy with this proposal. I don't know what to do. If I reject, I feel that I am disobeying Allah and my parents also and if I accept this proposal and marry him, after marrying if I don't accept him as my husband as he is not having a pleasant personality and each day if I regret and dislike him will also increase my sins. And if I do not listen each and everything what he says and follows about each sunnah then my sins will increase each and every second. I am very much afraid. Please do suggest me according to Islam. I do not want to commit any sin. In my view what I feel is if I reject him now its less sin and if I marry him for the sake of my parents then my whole life I will do one or the other sin and if incase any divorce then the big sin. Please do suggest me I am very much afraid. Suggest some good advice so that my heart gets relief.
Bhai ki wajah se pareshaani
Q: Aap ki madad ki jarurat hai. Mera ek chohta bhai hai age 22 saal hai. Janaw uske wajeh se puri family preshani main rehti hai Ammi Abbu or hum bade bhaiyu se bhi wo gali deke baatein karta hai usse hum pyar se samjhate hai par wo hume hi marne aata hai use kaise sudhare bahut Bigad gya hai wo Ammi Abbu tak pe haat chor deta hai aaye din uski wajeh se bahut preshani hoti hai or fiqr bhi hoti hai uski kahi kabhi kuch ho naa jaaye meri family bahut preshani main hai aap se Guzarish hai koi salah de hume ke hum kya kre jis jagha hum rehte he wha saare Hindu Hai or jo ghar musalmano ke hai wo bhi sath nhi dete jub mushibat aati hai tuh sab darte hai kahi kuch ho na jaaye please help.
Parents forcing the son to divorce his wife
Q: Prophet Ibrahim (Alayhi Salaam) told Ishmaal (Alayhi Salaam) to divorce his wife. Ishmael (Alayhi Salaam) did. My parents demand the same. My wife prays and wears hijab and is from a different country from me. My parents want me to marry women who are more cultural and don't wear hijab, since none of their 4 daughters/my sisters wear hijab. To what level of authority do parents have?
Gaining the parents duas
Q: What do we have to do to gain our parents good Duas?
Being respectful and kind towards one's parents
Q: I am a woman who is married to a beautiful person Alhamdulilah and have three children. I also have an amazing set of parents. I love them a lot and care for them. I respect them and I have succeeded in keeping them happy with my behaviour and humbleness towards them. I do this only because Allah has mentioned this over and over again about the rights of parents. I have tried my best not to disappoint them and keep asking them to forgive me if I have. My question is my parents keep talking of what belongs to my brothers amongst their properties and what belongs to me, although any sane person would say how unjust the division is. I have never said uff or raised my voice against their decision. But the thought keeps eating me from inside that although I have loved and obeyed every single word of my parents, why is it that I am being tested by not getting what Allah has given me the right to. My brothers are so disobedient and abuse my parents (at least one of them), they keep raising their voice against my parents decisions and I have selflessly always tried to make peace without thinking of any personal gain. Today, if I don't think of what is mine and what my haqq is, nobody will. I just don't know how to voice my mind to my parents only with the fear of upsetting them or maybe letting them down. They always come to me for opinions and help and I have always helped them without any ulterior motive. Just that nobody has any guarantee of time and I don't want to come to a point where I will be head on with my brothers and maybe ruin my relationship with them over my right. Please help me. I am torn, hurt and very upset.