Khwaab ki ta'beer
Q: Main ne khwaab main dekha ke mera felow gari ke nichy aa jata hy bht khun ata hy bulati hun main bhai ko ro ro k wo ankhain kholty zra c or dam tor dety or aik din main lash b dykhi khwab main.
family ties
Dream
Q: Can you interpret this dream? One seeing that blood or fluid is dripping from their breast and that they can't control the fluid. It's dripping away and then some family member niece comes in the room to get something but then walks out.
Rishtidaaro ke saat achcha sulook owr bartaaw karna
Q: Me na dream dehka ka mera mamo mami aur mera bhai hai main road ma aur ma hawa sa urta hoo signal ka pool tak aur phr shower sa barish karta hoo un kae uper esa karta ho jesay barish ho ri hoo un par. Phir ma office ki taraf jump zour sa karta hoo aur hawa ma office ki taraf jaha ra hota hoo.
Moving away from family due to free mixing and intermingling
Q: Should a person cut relations and move away from parents and other close relations if he or she is being made to feel isolated because of failure to adhere to the societal norm of free mixing? The individual in question feels that he is being an inconvenience at gatherings. Family feel compelled to make separate seating arrangements, which due to their habit of free mixing they can't keep to. In addition even on the rare occasions when complete segregation is adhered to the social gathering contains useless talk, which leads to gheebat. If the individual in question addresses this issue in the only way that he knows, then he is regarded as either being a spoil sport, breaking hearts or even mentally unwell. His family regard themselves as deendar but their Deeni talks ironically take place whilst brother in laws and sister in laws are sitting in the same gathering. This brother is now beginning to feel depressed and isolated and the only way out seems to be move away from everybody. Is this a reasonable course of action to take in this particular situation?
Getting married to a girl from a shia family
Q: I have a cousin from a very Deen dar family who got involved with a girl from a Shi'ah background in the college he was studying in. She herself was "modern" and my cousin was probably able to persuade her to give up the peculiarly Shi'ah beliefs that she was brought up with. Four years later they were getting married and we were invited to their wedding. There was a wedding performed by one or their "ulama" (stating that this was a nikaah daa'imi - - not muwaqqat?!) and a reception. My father is an Aalim (a student of Mawlana Saleemullah Khan mudda zilluhu al-aali) and is also somewhat visible in the Tabligh work. Although he was not present my mother was concerned about his good name if she attended a social occasion of Shi'ah people. Also I am twenty and my brother is eighteen and my mother was concerned that we not interact socially with Shi'ah people. As a result my mother chose not to go to either occasion. Since then some family elders have come down hard on us for not coming and have said that this was Qata' rahmi and also that since the girl has accepted Islam we should have supported her but being present and should have accepted her "with open arms", and that we are running the risk of driving her away while she has accepted Islam. Should we pay heed to these objections and try to make amends? Please answer in detail.
Attending a shia marriage
Q: A cousin of mine in a highly deendar environment has married a shia and our family decided not to attend the marriage of our cousin. However, a few of our deendar relative and elders called us and scolded us for doing Qata' Rahmi. Q.1 What is the fatwa on attending a marriage/nikah being arranged by Shia? Is it permissible or impermissible? Q.2 Is it Qata' Rahmi on our part to boycott the marriage?
Bhaai behno owr khaandaan walo ke saat achcha sulook rakhna
Q: Mere khwaab mein meri left hand ki thumb se 2 finger kat gayi hai. Thoda ada huva hai dard hai lekin khun nai nikal raha hai koi mujhe shakkar pani laga kar ungli chipkane ki koshih kar rahe hai aur thoda white fevicol laga kar chipaka rahe hai.
Maintaining family ties
Q: Can Mufti Sahheb please interpret my dream. I dreamt that I went to my brother's house. As I was trying to enter, there was a dog on the front lawn, moving to and fro and barking. There was also a lump of stool that was surrounded by flies. When I turned to the left, my sister in-law was approaching. I asked her to help with the dog but she just ignored me. I managed to enter the house and when I opened the back door there was also a bigger dog there with stool on the floor. I quickly closed the door.
Tamaam rishtidaaro ke saat achcha sulook owr bartaaw karna
Q: Mere khwaab mein duty ke paas ek ladki mujhse ladti hai utne mein pata chalta hai mere mamu ka inteqal hogaya bolke bolti hai, us ladki ke haathle mein khoon laga huva hota hai wo mujhe apna haath dikhati hai. Mere mamu ki lash nai reheti hai sirf unke gosh ke tukde aur usme bo ati hai wo ek polithine mein rakh ke dete hai. Mein aur mere ami leke jate hai. Us gosh ke tukdo mein mera phone raki hun aur nikalte waqt bo ati hai. Phone ko poochti hun. Hum log rote huwe jate hai. Nana ke purane ghar waha ek ambulance reheti hai. Phir bohot sare log mauta mein aye huve hote hai mamu ki lash nahi reheti. Sirf unke gosh ke tukde bohot rote hai log mein sochti hun kya bolun mamy ki laash nahi hai bulke asal mein mere mamu ka inteqal ho chuka hai ho kar 6 mnths hore. Mufti saab mere nana ka purana ghar aye jab hamesha darata hai mufti saab meherbani karke is khaab ki tabeer batadijyea. Mere marhum mamu kahi musibat mein to nahi. Unke leyea dua kijyea.
Family members not replying to one's salaam
Q: I stay in the same house with my mother in-law and sisters in-law.When I give salaam, they don't respond to it. Am I obligated to make salaam or should I stop greeting them?