ta'leem

Love marriage

Q: Meri shaadi chaar saal pehle tayh hui thi. Mera lov marriage hai aur hum dono ke parents hamare rishtey se khush the aur usko malum tha me garib hu toh me job karungi pr ab wo mujse ahadi nhi krna chahta n meko gandi gandi galiya deta hai jisse mere aur uske waliden bohot pareshan hai, aap kuch aisa wazifa batau k wo khud apne aap jaldse jald muje apnaye aur job krne de. Me uspr koi dua dum nhi kr sakti qki wo job k liye abroad gaya hay. Aapki badi meherbani hogi agar aap meri madad karoge toh.

Marital problems

Q: I am very troubled. My husband's Iman is already weak. Once a month we travel to Johannesburg so that I can visit my parents. My husband's parents have a flat here in jhb so we stay there. I have noticed now that in the flat that was furnished buy our in-laws that there is a frame with "Assalaamu alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakaatu" writtn in arabic. Its hanging in our kitchen. The thing is the kitchen and lounge is all in one, like its bascially 1 room. And my husband watches tv in the lounge. So basically the frame is exposed to the tv and the frame obviously has Allahs name on it. Its not my flat so I can't remove it. And A am afraid to tell my husband incase he says im just being parinode and wont listen. Which would be worse because now I think he doesn't notice. What should I do?

Making ta'leem at home

Q: When I try to give dawah to my parents my parents bash me with yelling and other things by saying that Oh so now you're so old to tell us what is right. So what should I do? I don't want to argue with them. So should I stop giving them Dawah?

Khwaab ki ta'beer

Q: Main nay khuwab dekha kay meray husband muj say kah rahay hain kay farishtay aaye hain kuch poochna hai tu pooch loo main nay in ko salam kar Kay poochoo Allah nay muj ko maaf kar deya hai woh kahtay hain haan main nay dobara poocha tu yeh hi kaha phir main Allah ke barahee beyan karti hun khush ho kar meri apnay husband say zyiada nahi banti iss khawab ka kia mutlub hai plz tell me.

Ghar walo ke saat ta'leem karna

Q: Me ne khwab me dekha ke mere sohar ko kisi ne pakar ke khi chupa diya he owr me ne un ko dhund bhi liya owr mre hath me me ne apne sohar ke liye do shirt ki pics liye hue the jis ka rang red and white r black n white the aur mra kisi c jhgra bhi hua yhi shirt k wjha wo bol rha the ye hm ko chahye .r bad uss ki maa ko smjha kr btate h to us ki maa bete ko le jati he. Plzz plzz mujhe iss khwab ki tabeer bta dijye.

Rowzaana ghar me ta'leem karna

Q: Meri ammi ne ek khwaab dekha ke ek ghar me teen Bahut bare bare saanp hai. Ayk kala dosra geyhun (wheat) ke colour aur teesra teen saanp colour yaad nahi. Teen saanp ek jaga ek bad ek surehe hain ammi mujhe dekha rehai hain ke dekh teen saanp ek jaga aram karehai hai utne me beech wala saanp (wheat colour) kahi chala jata hai. Mein ammi ko khe raha hoon ke wheat colour ka saanp jo hai woh Malik bin Deenar (R.A) ka hai.

Rowzana ghar me ta'leem karna

Q: Maine apni shadi ke liay istkhara kia tha or mujhe iski tabeer janni hai. Maine 3 din istkhara kia tha pehlay din khuwab dekha k main apni behn or bhai k satg kisi jgha pr mojood hn sab kuch tbah huwa wa hai jesay silab k bad hota hai wahan pr mujhe ak chipkli kat leti hai jesay ghreelo chipklian hoti hain or zehr phail jata hai phr meri behn mujhe white color ki choti choti tablets deti hai or main theak ho jato hn ye khuwab mujhe fajar k bad aya dosre din koi khuwab nhi aya teesray din Maine dekha k wohi behn or bhai hain hum apne mamon k ghr hain wahan ak tlab numa jgha hai jis main buht sa ganda pani or zehrelay keeray mokoray hain or 2 ortain or ak mrd us pani ko check krte hain or kehtay hain k ab bus thori dair main qyamat ajay gi ye sun kr main or meri behn bhagte ta k apni mother K pass chalay jain hum mamon k ghr wapis atay hain to wahan ami or choti khala pehlay se ai hui hoti hain main ami se pochti hn k ap yahan kesay wo hustay hue kehti hain k main kuch kpre lay ai hn or kuch ghr pay chor ai hn ta k jahan qyamat ay hum dosri jgha chalay jain main hustay hue unhain galay lga leti hn k apki jgha mujhe moat ajay or us ghr k fursh ki entain surkh or barish k pani se bhegi hui hoti hain usk bad mnzr bdl jata hai maine dekha K buht sara panj hai saf shfaf khobsoart hr trf smndr or samne se ak dianasor a rha hota hai uski sari skin pr jelly c lagi hoti hai jesay wo us zahreelay pani se nikl k aya ho or us jelly K andr wo dono ortain or mrd b hota hai or buht se zehrelay hure sanp wo smndr main chlang lgata hai or uska jism saf ho jata hai sanp pani main chalay jatay hain or insan b jesay sab khush ho rhe hn k qyamat nhi ai usk bad maine khud ko ak trali main dekha apne doston K sath wo kachay rastay pay chal rehi hai sab khush hain or hr trf gndum k sbz khait hain or jab main uthi to fjr ki nimaz ka wqt tha kindly mujhe iski tabeer btaiay k kia mera istkhara shadi k liay positive hai ya nhi?