Q: I made plans a few months ago and told my parents that I would like to spend the last 10 days of Ramadan in South Africa with my teacher because he goes every Ramadan. They did not say much at the time. My mother is not allowing me to go. What should I do?
Q: Mujhe ap se inthai aham aur nazok masla pocha ha.main auk sarkari molazim hon.mahwar tankhow 20000 ha meri shadi ko 10 sal ho choke hain mere 2 bache bi hain Allaha ka shokor ah azwagi zindgi bahot achi gozar rahe ha.
Lakin masla ye ha kh mere parents khas tor pe waldha ki waja se meri azwaji zindgi aur zahini pereshani had se zinda rahe ha. main janta hon kh waldha ka maqam bahot se bi bahot zidha ha.is waja se in 10 salaon main main ne 1 lafz bi nahe kaha balkh momlat ko dorost aur waldha ko khosh karne k chakar main bahot dafa apni wife pe hath uthaya ha. Ab masla ye ha kh mere chote bhai ki shadi ho choki ha to mujh se chota bhai sakht mizaj ka ha,meri walda os k sath thik ha,os ki wife k sath be had se zida thik ha,lakin meri wife k sath her bat pe zid mere sath her bat pe larai.For example meri beti aur meri sister ki umer main taqriban 4 sal ka farqho ga taqriban 6 ki meri beti and my sister is 10 years old.meri pori koshish hoti ha kh jo chiz apni beit k lie lon wahe sister k lie bi but meri tankhwo intin nahe kah main bahot zida khrcha kar sakon pher bi koshsh hot ha..lakin ager kabi meri wife meri beti k lie kuch le le to bus jahgra shoro kh tumhri wife ne to apni marzi ki meri biti k lie kun nahe lai.and mera sara din is kam main gozar jata ha kaha waldha naraz na hon.lakin pher bi wo khsh nahe main kua karon.main ye soch soch k zahni mariz hota ja rah hon kh main hamesha se khd se apni wife se apni sister aur brothers aur waldha ko tarjhe di.pher mere sathe he esa salok kun ager adat ha meri walda ki to mere sathe he kun bhi k sath to thik on ko kuch nahe kahti balkah on ki chota se chota kam bi khod karti hain on ki wife ka on ka.aur mere sath nagaive behavour kun.Main khoda k khof se pher mafi mangta hon wo pher is taraha karti han mere 10 sal is tarha gozar ge ab main ahsaass e mahromi wali kafet se gozar raha hon na gor apni biwi bachon ko attention de pa raha hon na kuch.Mujhe kua karna chahe please mujhe raste btye main bahot taklife main hon.walda ki waja se apne wife apne bachon ka haq na mar jaon aur apni biwi aur bachon ki waja se waldin ka na haq mar joan. jabhkha meri wife auk parhe likhi khaton hain aur bahot coprative hain.main ne bahot sari urton se bahot acha paya ha ose.mere aur mere parnts k sath mokhlis ha wo bi main kua karon.Jabkha mere wald sahb ki pay 42000 ha aur mere parents mashallaha sahitmand hain.
Q: A mother has two daughters who are working and her husband passed away. She got 3 brothers and 2 sisters. Who is responsible to take care of her financial and medical needs?
Q: I have a question with regards to hurmut mussaharah. Unfortunately, I was watching porn/masturbating one evening, where suddenly my mother entered the room. Although I did not expose myself in anyway, I was greeted and touched whilst I was still in an excited state from the haram I did. I remember feeling something inappropriate and trying my best to suppress the feeling, although I have no such feelings at all normally (sorry for going into detail, but I remember I still had an erection before they entered and there was a feeling after the touch which was out of my control). I also remember warmth from the touch. Has hurmut mussaharah taken place? Please advise me what to do.
Q: We would like to send our mother (60 years old) to Hajj this year but would like to know if it's okey to send our mother (widow) with our Paternal uncle's son as he is planning to go for Hajj with his wife? Can he be considered as Mehram for my mother?
Q: I have not seen my mother for 15 years. Now I am 20 years old. There was a problem between my dad and mom as my mother a had a habit of robbing and it was very embarrassing. There was huge fight between dad and mom and So she left the house and went away. All these years I was living without her. But I recently got to know that she is Saudi Arabia. What should I do? Should I tell my dad or not because he hates her and the second thing is should I contact her? I am confused my heart says I should but I don't know what to say.
Q: If someone touched his mother with lust when he was 10-12 years old and he is not sure about his feelings what will he do now? How could he ask forgiveness from Allah Ta'ala? What is the procedure for his Tauba? Does he have to confess. He is really upset and all time he is thinking about it and is very disturbed and in deep depression. Please guide.
Q: In the laws of slavery, a man could enjoy relations with his slave. What would happen in the case of both a mother and daughter being his slave?
Q: What should a person do in the situation where he needs to bring his ailing mother into his home so that he can look after her, but his wife is unhappy with this? He has explained to his wife that he will look after his mother and tend to her, yet she is still upset and refuses to speak to him. What does Shari’ah instruct in this situation?
Q: I'm female and married. Right now I'm passing through difficult times and this is between my parents. My father is not speaking to my mother and this happens every six months on such small things. I have 2 younger sisters. We never interrupted between them fearing that they might get separated. He is not staying with them and threatening my mother that he can marry any women if he can.