Q: When I met my wife and asked her hand in marriage, she agreed but we committed zina before she introduced me to her parents and before we were joined together. She was pregnant when we were joined together. What is the status of our marriage and the first child? When is marriage said to have taken place in Islam or when are the two lawful to have sex?
Q: My question is it permissible to have nikah with girl with whose mother I did zina? Now the story is that I did zina with a woman but the reality is that the woman did zina with me because I was 14 and she had three daughters at that time. Now my family did my nikah with her older daughter, she loves me and I love her and we happy for one another. I already did tawbah for what I did and I ask for forgiveness from Allah Almighty. Now we are in relationship already in nikah but I have a question sometimes in my mind, so is it allowed in Islam that her daughter be my lawful wife or I have to leave her? The zina one time we did almost 12 years passed, after that I never tried to do that with her mother nor her mother tried with me. Kindly answer me with details and references.
Q: Kal raat me hotel ma kise aur larki ky sath rat guzari pir ma buhut tension me ta kio ke ma ne mangne ki he. Is liya my bhut pareshan ho. Phir ma Allah ko roya ke ay Allah, mujy map parmady. Ayenda ma aisa nahe karongi. Bohut dafa ma ne Allah sa mafi mange laiken my aab tension ma ho ky Allah mujy map kar dyga ka nahe.
Q: Agar biwi nikaah me hai aur biwi dusre admiyo se hum bistari kare to kya ushe talaak dena chahiye ya shariyat me kuch aisa mujhe plzz mujhe batye.
Q: Maine khwaab mai aaj raat mid night ko dekha hai ke koi mard mery sath zabar dasti zina kar raha hai aur mai bagh rahi hoon sar naga aur payoon naghy. Tabeer arz kar dey.
Q: I did nikah with a woman few days before. The very next day from someone outside I find out that my wife had physical relationship out of marriage with a man for 3 years. I went home and asked her straight and she confessed that she had physical relationship with him so much so that they had done kissing all over, seen each other naked and touched each other's private parts (masturbated each other) but she made promise on Allah that they did not have intercourse. I can't believe that they did not do intercourse, even if they did not do intercourse how a husband is supposed to forgive all this? If I leave her the 25 years of relationship of two families will be destroyed. But I can't forgive her. I try to forgive her but whenever I see her I imagine the two of them having doing zina and that is unbearable for me. Help me what I'm supposed to do. Even if I forgive her how can I cope with my imagination?
Q: I have something that has been troubling me. My husband told me he had a male call him in a private number accusing him of having an affair with this man's wife then he goes on to tell that, that man then tells that I am having something to do with him which highly got me angry which I know is a lie. I phoned a service provider enquiring if I can trace a private call so I can prove my innocence I asked my husband to take me to police station to open up a case against that private call but he refused to take me he said he will sort it out but he doesn't want to take me. Then my husband tells me that the station police told him that they can only see the area which person is calling from but not the actual person which I believe is a lie because all sim cards are registered. Customer care told they can trace a private call but my husband is adamant that it can't be done and private call is only coming when he is not at home. So I don't know if my husband is trying to defame me or trying to accuse me of something and it is really disturbing me a lot and causing discomfort. Please advise me I don't want to leave any stones unturned I want to get to the bottom of the truth.
س: السلام علیکم ،،، سسٹر انٹرنیٹ پہ سوال پوچھا تھا اب جس سے سوال پوچھا تھا وہ اسکالر تھے یا جج تھے یہ نہیں معلوم ،،، کہ وہ کس عہدہ پر فائز تھے ،،، انہوں نے سوال کہ جواب میں کہا تھا کہ " دنیا میں حد لگوانا آخرت کہ عذاب سے بہتر ہے " آپ سے یہ پوچھنا تھا کہ انکا ایسے کہنا کیا حد نافذ کرنا ہے ؟؟ ایسا کہنے سے کیا حد نافذ ہوگئی ؟؟؟ اور ان سے میسیجز کہ ذریعے بات ہوئی تھی جسمیں انہوں نے کہا تھا کہ اس گناہ کی سزا تو آپکو معلوم ہی ہے ،، وغیرہ ۔۔۔ اور سسٹر کچھ ٹی وی چینل پر بھی سوال پوچھا تھا ،،، جسکا جواب وہ آن لائن ٹی وی پر ہی دیتے ہیں ،،، تو اس طرح بہت سے لوگوں کو اس گناہ کا علم ہوگیا ،،، تو کیا اسطرح بھی حد نافذ ہو جاتی ہے ؟؟ بہت سے لوگوں کو اختلاف بھی ہوا ہو گا انکے منفی کمنٹس بھی ہونگے ،،، اسطرح حد نافذ ہو جاتی ہے ؟؟؟ اور ہمیشہ تشویش رہتی تھی کہ پتہ نہیں گناہ کی معافی ہوتی ہے یا نہیں ہوتی اس لئے بہت سے لوگوں سے پوچھا ،،، اسکالرز سے شاید کوئی اندر جج بھی ہوں ،،، لیکن جتنے جواب آئے ان میں سب نے توبہ کا ہی کہا ،،، کچھ نے جوابات دیئے نہیں اور کچھ کہ مل نہیں سکے ،،، اکاؤنٹ ڈیلیٹ ہونے کی وجہ سے اور کچھ اکاؤنٹس کا پاسورڈ بھول جانے کی وجہ سے ،،، تو اس سلسلے میں راہنمائی چاہیئے تھی ،،، والسلام
Q: Mera sawal ye hai ke agr biwine shaddi de se phale sex kar chuki hai ek se ziyada afrad ke sath wo bhi anginat martaba aur shaddi ke bad agr wo apne shohar se iske bareme batati hai to use nikha me rakhna chaye ya nahi rakhna chaiye ya fir talq dena chaiye? Aur abhi bhi us ka dil jise zina kiya us me thoda bahot atka huwa hai jise ke sath zina kiya sabo ki shaddi hogaye hai aur unko ek se do bacce bhi hai. Aise halat me kya kare meharbani karke baye Shariyat kya hukum deti hai is bareme? Mai mere bhai ki pareshani aur nahi dekhsakta.
Q: I have been married for fourteen years. I have three daughter. For the past seven years my wife had affairs with different men and I tried every time to speak to her to repent but the affairs just happen over and over year after year. As a result of this my life been constant worry with no peace of mind. It is because I loved her so much I just tried to save the marriage every time. I have my brother and my parents here to stop this marriage but in my heart I still love her. How do I occupy my mind through this talaaq process because it feels like I am scared but I don't want to go back to this life. As I know myself I will try to go back and in past that is how it happen over and over. I forgave her but her affairs never stop. I gave her one talaaq seven years back and I wanted to know if I can give her the rest two talaaqs not in anger in any way, but just so that I can't go back to that life.