Larki ki engagement ke ba'd wahaan par peghaam bhejna

Q: Masla ye ha k meri engagement phopho k ghr hue thi jo galat fehmi ki waja se toot gae. Ab meri czn ki engagement doosri jga ho gae ha. Wqt guzrny k sath sath such samny aya too ab meri phopho, un ki daughter, meri ammi or mere abu mjy force kr rae han k me dobara waheen shadi kroon phopho ki trf or meri czn ki jhan abi engagement hue ha wahaan se toor k mere sath krna chah rae han.

Me is bat pr agree nae hun q k kisi ka ghr ujaar k me apna abaad nae krna chahta. Pr ab is batt ka b drr ha k me kaheen ammi abu or phopho ka dil b dukha rha hun un ki ye batt na maan kr phopho ko ye bht gmm g lga hua ha. Abu mjy isi waja se bulana choor chuky han. Ab mjy kia krna chahiye?

A: Ye to ghalat baat he. Agar in logo ne shaadi ka pegham ko manzoor karliya to manzoor karne ke bad is tarah karna ghalat baat he bohot buri he.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

 

Answered by:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)