Q: I am so worried after reading that a marriage without a guardian is not right. I am hanafi and always thought that it was fine for me because I was married before already and have kids. I married without telling my parents because they never would allow me to be a second wife. Someone else acted as my guardian at the nikaah. All I want to know now is am I living in haraam?
Q: Family planning is not permissible in Islam. I have come to realise that even though we use different methods of family planning, everything lies in Allah Ta'alas hands. If Allah Ta'ala wishes it to be, nothing can prevent it. My husband and I use condoms as a preventative. I would now like to refrain from this as I feel it is not correct and this also falls under family planning, however, my husband feels contrary. Is azal also regarded as family planning. If it is ok to use condoms, no problem. However, if its not permissible then what should I tell my husband?
Q: I want to know the meaning of a dream my cousin saw about me. I am 26 years old and unmarried and I want to marry someone but my parents are not agreeing right now. She saw that I was getting married and my parents and his parents all agreed but then a group of women came in abaayas and niqaab and they asked where is the bride and took me with them and my cousin was thinking that if everyone agreed then why they took me like this. I am worried what does it mean?
Q: I live in a town about 50km away from my parents. I stay with them every weekend and try to do as much as I can to please them. My mother plans on going to do my sisters confinement in Joburg for a week. She wants me to come and stay with my father and younger brothers for that week. I must close my afternoon Madrasah for that week and cover up the lost time during the weekends. I must also leave my husband and tell my mother in law to cook etc for him for that week. My husband feels that this is unreasonable. I want to please him but I also want to please my mother. Who has more right over me and how can I resolve the issue without offending my husband and my mother?
Q: I am nowadays in financial crisis and have to pay a lot of debts. I am a Muslim but yes i admit that I have made a lot of sins and mistakes that I did not pray 5 times, now when I am in crisis I realised that it is all because I was gaafil from Allah. But now when I want to start salaah again with pure heart my friends says "If you are in trouble and you remember Allah it means you are in trouble" is it wrong if you realize your mistakes and you want to go to Almighty Allah?
Q: I would like to know if reciting ayaat 128-129 from surah towbah all day long with the intention for solving all my problems in my life is permissible or not and if one needs ijaazat from his sheikh for this amal if permissible?
Q: A person doesn't know which date his "haul"-date for paying zakat is, and he must thus choose any date of the year. Which date is the ideal to chose? Am I reasoning correctly by choosing the 27th of Ramadhaan, due to the high probability of lailatul-qadr falling on that day, hoping to multiply my reward for giving zakat on this particular day?
Q: I know the sunnah of drinking water but would like to know the sunnah etiquettes of drinking water when partaking in a meal. Many say we should not drink whilst we are eating some say drink 1 hour before and after eating others say that it is sunnah to drink water in the middle of meal. Please can mufti saab please advise according to hadith?
Q: Should we recite when Imam is not reciting in namaaz bajamaat?
Q: Is it allowed to eat in a restaurant where they serve alcohol? The alcohol in this specific restaurant are stored separately and are kept
far away from food and they serve the people only when they order separately. (Not included in the buffet).