Q: I am a married man with kids. However, I have been addicted to porn and cyber sex. My wife doesn't know, but i feel I cheat her and also commit a grave sin. I have tried to stop and repent many times but after a break of a month or so I start again. I feel hopeless and fear marriage break up and later on hell in my after life. Knowing I have made gunah-e-kabeera and that I have back tracked after repenting, is there hope for me? What should I do to cleanse myself and be hopeful of paradise?

Q:

1. Is it permissible to do Fatiha Sharif or Khatam Sharif (Recite some verses from the Qur'an like 4 Quls, Surah Fatiha, beginning verses of surah Baqra, etc) in the presence of food then convey the reward to all the deceased Muslims  and then make Dua) not thinking of Fatiha Sharif as compulsory. I was told that there is a hadith in Bukhari where the Prophet (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) went to Anas (Radiyallhu Anhu's) house and food was presented in front of the Prophet (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) who recited from the Qur'an and then made Dua. Is this true?
2. Will it be permissible for a person to attend Fatiha Sharif or Khatam Sharif gatherings when one is invited, not thinking of Fatiha Sharif as compulsory ?

Q: Can someone put mehndi or hair color while she is fasting?

Q: What is the ruling regarding divorced parents and the custody of children? Two prominent muftis have said that although the children are 7 and 9 years old, yet they do not go to the father as the father is not capable of caring for children. It will not be forced upon the mother to let go of the children and also the fact that this is not a muslim country so the mother will not be forced to. However, when the children reach puberty, then they are given the choice to choose where they want to go. Is this true?

Q: 

1. Does masturbation nullify the fast?

2. If it does nullify the fast, does this person have to stay without eating and drinking for the rest of the day?

3. When he takes ghusl, will he just rinse his mouth and nose or will he gargle his mouth properly and put water properly in his nose?

Q: If ones Masjid went with the Saudi announcement of Ramadaan and it is known that the Saudis in this area choose to keep the the month of Sha'baan at 30 days. What should one do about the Eid Salaah when there Masjid will be observing Eid and ending the fast early.

Q: If a woman becomes a murtadda her nikah does not break. What will happen if she remains a murtadda?

Q: A non Muslim male finds beauty in Islam and ​accepts Islam. He has a wonderful wife and is happily married but the wife is Christian and will not accept Islam. What is the relationship between him and his wife? What course of action must he take?

Q: I have taken a flat on instalment for 1,850,000 Indian Rs. I have given 500,000Rs out as initial payment. I still have to pay the remaining amount. I have 1,000,000Rs  in hand now which i have to give. Do I need to pay zakaat on it?

Q: What is the ruling regarding making niyaat for women not in the saff?