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The harms of women attending university

7 years ago By admin

Q: I am 19 years old and I got nikaah with a family friend. It was arranged. We both are married islamically but don't plan on getting a "rukhsati" or living together for the next 3-4 years until I finish my university. So nothings really changed for me, I still live with my family and he lives with his but we're married islamically. However, I regret my decision. We don't really click and I am not happy with him. I regret my decision a lot. I feel like I'm too young and I barely know myself. I want to find myself and just be a normal 19 year old girl going to university. I brought up divorce to my parents and they aren't taking it well at all. They are threatening me and abusing me for even thinking about disgracing them like that. I don't know what to do. should I go through with it and be unhappy for the reason of my life? or should I take a stand and risk getting disowned?

Girls living in a hostel

7 years ago By user2

Q: I am an engineering student and I am currently living in the hostel. All was going well till my roommate offered prayer. Her method of offering salah was different but I did not pay much attention to this because in college, I am friends with a shia girl whose method is also differed from mine. I do not discuss this with anyone but I was told by another hostelmate that she is a "aga kahani". This made me furious. After that day I stopped using her things but I never stopped sharing mine with her. Now the problem is that we hostelmates make tea together and she is also included in our group of friends. We do not want to make her feel miserable but I asked her not to make tea for me twice.

Now, the question is that how should I behave with her as we have to share one room and I have to live with her for a long period of time.

Also, we use to eat our lunch and dinner in the same plate, is this appropiate? 

Women leaving the home to study

7 years ago By user2

Q: I’m a college student and something has been bothering me lately. I study for all my exams and everything but I just can’t get good grades. I study almost everyday, I know everything in the exam it’s just that when I get the exam back I either failed or got a really low score. Also, there is always something that happens that end up making me depressed. I also pray to Allah to make everything better, I just wanted to know if there is anything that I should do to help me. 

University ka teacher Islam ke khilaaf baate karna

7 years ago By user2

Q: Ma arid university rwp ka student hun hamre university main ak teacher ny islam mukhlif batain ki islam katal o ghart ka mazab hy Hazoor Paak (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) ag hoty to kon kon un k sath film dkhny jata Hazoor Paak (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) ko ham fallow ni kar skty hain hazrt imam or yazed donu brabar hain. ham nu university main awaz uthi k thooen a rasalat ki hy us teacher ny jab k hmare university is masly ko daba rahi ha or kay rahi hy k agr awaz utahi to uni say nekal dayin gy ap ko. Aap batiy ab ham kiya kari us teachr k khalaf vc ko application b di magr vo kuch ni kar rah.

Women studying in universities

7 years ago By user2

Q: I read your answer about women studying in universities. You say its not good? Why? Islam never stopped womens rights. Me and my friends study in university in abaya. We never talk to boys unless its necessary. But you are saying it is bad, it is haram. So that means women should not go to universities? I know many people who bound their women in houses and don't allow them to go for education. I am very sad after reading it. That means women don't have right to go and study if she likes to study and men can do anything? Why? Men can marry the girls too who are not Muslims?

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