Q: I just wanted to ask that a Moulana wants me to go 4 months jamaat with him but then it'll mean that it will take me another 6 months to finish my studies. What should I do, just go 3 days each month and finish my studies then go 4 months or go 4 months then come back and carry on studies?
Q: I am struggling with this issue for some time and would like to receive some good advice inshallah.
I have met a good Muslim girl (as is common these days) and wish to pursue a halaal relationship with her. Her parents are aware of me, accept me and are very welcoming of the idea. However, my parents are not aware of the extent of my relationship with her. After a brief conversation I had (regarding marriage, not regarding the girl) with them, they have two issues.
1. We are a Pakistani family and the girl is from a South African family. They are concerned regarding the effects of the difference in culture on our household. They are typical joint family people while the girl and I myself are not too fond of that idea. Nonetheless, the issue is that they do not prefer to marry outside culture, while I disagree as I believe the requirement to be Muslim, not Pakistani. Regardless of that I have spent 8 years of my 22-year life in South Africa and as such am a part of this culture as much as I am a part of Pakistani culture.
2. They do not want to even initiate a conversation about marriage until I have graduated and have a stable job. I completely agree with the idea, that they want me to be able to support and provide for her and I will accept no exception. However, that will take around 2-3 years and until then our relationship will either be haraam or non-existent. The girl's family will not accept me just dating her for the next 3 years and Islamically this is wrong also. I wish to know what to do about this situation.
Lastly, if I were to approach my parents with the idea of Nikaah, what would be the best and safest way to go about doing this.
Q: Mera sawal yeh hai ek mai engineering course mai hoo jaisa maineh Islamic field mai ziyada tawajju de rahaa hoo toh maineh 2 saal mai dekah hai ki mai mera studies mai picheeh hojarahaa hooo. Mai Alhamdulilah 5 times ki saath nafil namaz bhi aur daily 1000 martaba durud e Pak. Thoo mai kiyaa karoooh samajnhe nahi araa. Madad ki kijeh please.
Q: My son does not like to study and he can not concentrate and he can't learn. He forgets whatever he studies. He is experiencing the same problem with his hifz.