Feelings from Shaitaan

Q: This may seem like a silly question, but this has seriously been bothering me for a very long time. A few years ago I fell in love with a girl, and then ended up finding out she lives very far away and my chances of marrying her are very slim. But every time I'm finally able to let go of most of my feelings for her, something happens that pulls her back into my heart. I've suffered alot of painful heartbreak in matters regarding her, but sometimes I feel like Allah(Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala) is keeping her in my heart because she is meant for me. I've even had alot of dreams about me and her being happy with each other, laughing, and having a good time with our families around us. This makes me think those dreams are glad tidings from Allah(Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala) that she is meant for me. Even my friend told me once that he had a dream where he saw me and her together. Can you please tell me what I should do to heal myself from all this, so I can finally be at peace? I find it very hard to forget her unless I'm absolutely sure she's not meant to be mine.

Suspended talaaq

Q: If a man divorces his wife for the frst time but then they reunite and every thing sorted out. Again after a period of time they again got divorced and again they remarry and everything sorted out but the third time if a man asked his wife that he is going abroad and not to go out without his permission otherwise it'll be considered a divorce. So now is it considered a final divorce? I mean if in this situation is it considered 3 divorces at a time because she went out without his permission... and if both are willing to live together for the sake of children is it possible for them to do so without 'halaala'. Kindly can I get your copy of fatwa regarding this as it is a serious domestic issue. 

The Khulafaa-e-Raashideen

Q: I have heard that Hazrat Mu'aawiyah (Radhiyallahu Anhu) is the fifth khalifa. I thought there are only four khalifas viz. Hazrat Abu Bakr, Hazrat Umar, Hazrat Uthmaan and Hazrat Ali (Radhiyallahu Anhum). Can you please give me the correct answer and was Hazrat Mu'aawiyah's (Radhiyallahu Anhu) status similar to the status of the four khalifas?

Larki rishta se khush nahi he

Q: Thode din pahle mere liye ek rishta aya hi aur mujhe bahuth pasand Karne lage aur unki pasand ko dekh kar mere parents bhi unse shaadi Karne Ke liye tayyar hogaye.lekin patani kyu mujhe ye bilkul pasand nahi aaraha. my deendaar hu aur namazi aur my ek deendaar se shaadi karna chati hu aur vo ladka deendaar nahi aur mujhse kam padha likha shayad isliye pasand nahi aaraha lekin my kisise yeh baath bata bhi nahi sakti.bahuth baar istikhara Kiya lekin kuch pata nahi Chala khwab nahi yaad rehthe. aur na pasand rehne ki vajah se Allah kahi naaraz tho nahi ho jaye iski dar lagtha hi lekin kitni bhi koshish Kari pasand ni araha. my bahuth pareshan hu plz mujhe koi suggestion de dijiye aur mere liye Dua kijiye.

Threading one's eyebrows

Q: I know that the Prophet curses a women who threads her eyebrows. But in Islam, nikah is taken very seriously and Allah hates divorce. Also a wife is supposed to obey her husband. I heard it is ibbadah, obeying your husband. My husband would like me to thread my eyebrows. Now I feel insecure, I feel he will look at other women because I keep refusing and he really wants me to thread. In such cases are we allowed to thread our eyebrows. My marriage is at stake.