Using a towel in the state of janaabat

Q: I would really appreciate your guidance on this. I am a very doubtful person and might even have OCD. Sometimes when I wake up for school in the morning I think I had a wet dream, I am not sure because i never remember having an orgasm in the dream. So in the mooring I want to make ghusal but there is no time so I decide to make it as soon as I get home. 1) If I wash my face and use my towel to dry it will my towel now be napaak? 2) During school if I need to watch a video for research and use my headphones will they become napaak? Because sometimes there will be a little earwax on them. 3) If I try on my mom's makeup like lipstick or eyeliner only when I am at home and then wash my face will the make up be napaak? If it is, how do I clean it?

Ghusal after an orgasm or wet dream

Q: If you could please give some guidance on the situation it would help a lot. I have heard that females only need to do ghusal when they have an orgasm or wet dream. I am a very doubtful person and 1) sometimes when I am sitting I will feel some tingling once or twice but I don't feel an orgasm, do I need to perform ghusal? 2) This happens allot and causes me lots of stress. When I go to sleep I will see a dream and feel tingling but don't feel or remember feeling an orgasm, do I have to make ghussl? I get vaginal discharge all the time so its very hard for me to check if there is extra wetness. Please give some advice.