Q: I have been married for three years. I am a doctor and doing a job since the last 9 years. My in laws are very well off but after marriage my
husband simply said that he cannot bear my expenses and even asked me to give my salary to his mother. I started giving a handsome amount to his mother every month but I had to bear all my expenses myself. My husband also wanted sexual relations as many times a day as he desired and when I refused he beat me when I was four moths pregnant with my first son. At the time of birth of our first son I bore all the expenses myself and I told my husband that I will not give my salary to his mother since I have to look after myself and my son. My husband and his mother started pressurising me to quit my job and when I refused my husband beat me very severely. At that time I was pregnant. Then my mother in law asked me repeatedly to get the pregnancy aborted which I did not and I came to my mother's house in march 2012 and since then I am bearing all the expenses of my kids and me all by myself. My husband does not pay a single penny and hardly ever calls to ask about the kids. In the light of these what does the Shairi'ah say about my not wanting to have any sexual relations with my husband? If I take khulaa what would be the status of my kids knowing that their father does not care about them at all?

Q: In a dar al kufr country, can the money from the kafir government be halaal to take by any means? Such as taking it by deceiving them through lying? Is any advantage alowed in a darul kufr by any means for a Muslim?

Q: 

1. Many Madaris and Makaatib have Madrasa holidays on 12th Rabiul Awwal because Prophet Muhammad S.A.W was born on that day. Is it permissible to keep Madrasa holidays on 12th Rabiul Awwal or is it bidah?
2. Did the Sahabah etc keep holidays on  Prophet Muhammad S.A.W birthday?

Q: I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend. Today it came to my knowledge that black magic is being done on me. My parents are now thinking
to consult a mufti to help get rid of this magic. I just wanted to ask that if they consult a mufti so can he get to know about my relationship?

Q: I have a problem reciting a certain part of the Tahiyyaat in Tashahhud. The part is: "...wa alaa ibadillaah'is salihin.." I have trouble pronouncing the last letter "n" out. Is it also permissible to read that part as: "...wa alaa ibaadillaah as salihin.." ? Thus "ibaadillaah" and "as" seperately, instead of connected as "ibaadillaah`is"?

Q: At times when I take out a garment to wear from the cupboard, I notice some substance of najaasat on it (not just the trace), what is the condition of the other garments washed together in the washing machine. Many a times I don't even know which were the other garments as it was only noticed after a few days. And if I know which were the other garments, then in this case also,what will be the ruling?

Q: I work in an organisation named JKEDI which is an entrepreneurship development institute and its mission is to make youth self employed so that they attain financial independence as its very difficult to get a government job here and the unemployment rate is alarming. JKEDI trains entrepreneurs, offers business development services and provides them finance for starting their business by linking them to banks where they are charged interest and give loans directly also. I am working there as a trainer. I want to know whether my job is halaal or haraam. And in  case its haram, can I continue working here till I get another job or I should quit?

Q: In toilet or istinga we should use lumps of earth 3 times or 1 or 5. And we heard that the method of using earth is different for cold season and warm season. In cold season the prostrate glands are compressed so first earth should be pushed from front to back and second from back to front and third from front to back and in hot season as to prostrate glands are loosen so you should use conversely. Is it related to sunnah.

Q: I had a dream that my sister is telling me to tell my mum to cook rice pudding in my house.

Q: Yesterday I saw some one in my dream, whom I thought to be an angel in human form. He was wearing white gown from head to bottom, He appeared in the corner of the room, bowed his head a little and greeted me Salam. I woke up immediately in a very calm state and greeted him back wa alaikum us salam. It was 4:45AM.