Baseless customs

Q:

1. We have the custom that in marriage the brides party have to give so many materials like utensil for kitchen, all item for bed room drawing room etc. And they give the example of marriage of Fatima (R.A.) and Ali (R.A.). Is this allowed in Islam and what is the exact sunnah regarding this issue?

2. If you invite people for walimah they have to bring some gift and without a gift they feel bed. Is this sunnah or what is the rulling?

3. In the time of invitation there is a system of invitation card or betal nut. Is it permissible and what is the sunnah method of invitation?

Dream

Q: I dreamt after istikhara  that my husband has passed stools all over our marital bed and also in my purse. On another day, again after reading istikhara I dreamt my husband was hiding in the middle of the night and talking to someone on the phone and in the dream I hear myself saying 'I knew he was interested in another woman'. Please let me know the tabeer of my istikhara dream.

Dream

Q: I saw a dream that a part of my teeth was broken but when I checked my teeth they are all complete. So many days ago I saw a dream that someone tried to pull out my upper teeth but he was not successful and my father became ill.

Dream

Q: Yesterday I had a dream that my husband got injured on his leg and his leg got plastered. I went to see him in the hospital but he got angry with me as I brought him soft drinks instead of tea. I have noticed since two days I have not performed the esha salaah and the two days I have dreamt of my husband. Can you interpret it?

Dream

Q: I saw a dream that my aunty came to visit my house and she brought with her a bottle of zam zam. I saw her and I got very happy and called my daughter and fed her the water.

Dream

Q: I saw a dream my mother is in bride dress and we all sisters gather around her and were happy. I told my mother if in your age there were beauty saloons then you look as beautiful as today.

Saying "Why have I been afflicted with such and such a problem"

Q: Three months before I got a son. But my son has no right ear. The right ear got microtia very little meat there like peanuts. The hearing in the right ear is also effected. I want to know why was my baby born with this defect? What does Islam say? My wife and I were doing wazifas to have a son. All reports during pregnancy were fine. Please tell me why God give me an abnormal son? Did  I commit some Gunaah due to which Allah Ta'ala is punishing me?

Going to Aamils

Q: Reported by Safiyyah (bint Abu Ubaid) (RA) that one of the wives of the Prophet (peace be upon him) narrated: The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: 'Who consults a soothsayer and believes what he says, his prayers will not be accepted for forty days.'(Muslim) 

If this is so, then how can we ascertain if we have been affected by Sihr. Is there any way to find out without jeopardizing our Salaah ?

Eating spleen

Q: It is haram for us to consume carrion (blood). Is it halaal for us to eat Spleen of an animal (since spleen also contains red blood cells) or is the prohibition only for running blood?