Equality between wives

Q: My husband has been having an affair with a woman for over 2 years. Recently I gave given birth to our 4th child, the baby is only 2 months old. My other children are still small. She has 3 sons. He says that he wants to make nikah but at times he also seems confused saying that she’s a good friend.

He says that if he does make nikah, he will sign a contract with her stating that he will spend 1 night only with her and give her a fixed amount per month (he will give her less than what he gives me) and that he won’t provide a home for her as she has her own home. He says that he will not be taking care of her children financially. He even says that in the contract he will state that she will have no rights to he’s inheritance. Is all this permissible?

Families delaying marriage

Q: I am in love with a Muslim girl. Both of our families know about us and we always force them to get us married, but they are delaying without reason. I earn more than enough to run a family. Both our families said that they will arrange our marriage in the year 2020.

We want to make it halal by marrying according to Islamic rules. Will our nikaah be valid if we get married without informing our family?

Breast implants

Q: I wanted to know if it would be a gunnah if I had breast implants.

My reasons for wanting to do it is because of black magic. Due to black magic I have lost my appearance totally to the extent where it's really embarrassing for me. Now I want to know if it's allowed to get implants only for my husband as I know he doesn't like my appearance. I don't want to cheat on him or anything. I just want to correct what the black magic has done to me.

Can you please tell me if it will be a gunnah.

Contemplating suicide due to problems with one's parents

Q: I was in love with a guy about 8 years ago. We were in a relationship for 4 years and then when we broke up, me and my family left UAE and came to Japan. The reason I broke up with him was that my cousin told my mom that your daughter is in love with someone so my mom said a lot of bad words to me.

After that everything changed in my life. I left that guy because I didn’t want to hurt my mom. I promise that I never met my that guy. I only chatted with him. But now my mom and dad hate me alot. It has been 4 years since we came to Japan and my dad never talks to me nicely. My mom says that I am napak. I swear I have never done anything wrong with him. I know my limits. I told my mom that we can go to a hospital and do a checkup and I can prove that I'm a pure virgin. I'm soo tired I just wanna kill my self. I attempted suicide many times but I always failed. I know its haram in Islam but it hurts me when my mom and dad does this to me.

After we broke up he got married and he is living a happy life with his wife and he has a baby boy. I'm suffering alot.  Is there any wazeefa that I can get married or any wazeefa by which my family will understand me? 

Wishing to die due to not getting proposed

Q: I'm 25 years old living with my parents. After completing my studies I got a rishta from Canada. I talked to that guy for 8 months but it was merely a simple "get to know" talk. They visited us and everything went great. Later, his dad asked for my rishta officially and the wedding date was set. After two months we had to call it off because according to the guy, he was forced into it. I had to bear the consequences.

After a year, another rishta came from a guy in South africa. We connected immediately, he came and we got engaged. He went back and after two months we got to know his PR expired and to extend it, he did a paper marriage.

Also, according to the new rules I wont be able to go there or work. Once again we had to call it off. This time I cant take this burden, I want to die - I hate my life soo much. I dont have any strength in me. Please help.