Q: I'd like to know if a Muslim woman can appoint another sister as an agent (wakil)?

Q:

1. If some drops of urine get on the side areas of vagina even after all the precautions, does pouring water over them using Muslim shower during istinja is enough? I usually wash my legs separately, wash with soap and pour water over the area thrice as i don't get satisfied by pouring water while making istinja from Muslim shower. What is the right way? I read on your website somewhere that drops dont need to be washed..they can be wiped with tissues. Is it correct?

2. How many times water should be poured on napaak body part? Some says two, some says three. I use soap then pour water thrice. Is washing with soap necessary?

Q: Can Qadha salah be performed after asar and fajar namaz? People say no salah should be done after asar neither nafal nor qadaa. My mother was about to offer magrib qazaa of previous day after asar next day, i stopped her as i read that no sajda should be done after asar farz till magrib. 

Q:

1. After I had passed stool, there was a lot of bleeding in my back part. I wiped until I saw no blood on the tissue, then took a shower, then prayed dhuhr and asr prayers. Then at maghrib I went to the bathroom, and saw even more blood. Do I assume that the bleeding started again after I prayed asr, or do I assume that the bleeding was going on the entire time and therefore I have impurity all over me (because I showered) and my prayers are invalid?

2. Also, I often have bleeding in my back part and the toilet tissue we use is not clear white - it naturally has yellow/brown/red bits in it (I think it is because the tissue is recycled) and this makes it hard to tell if something is blood/stool or just the normal color of the toilet paper. If I wipe until the toilet paper comes back clean, then wash myself, then check again using toilet paper, however during the check I notice some spots that I'm not sure is normal color vs blood/stool, so I check again, but this time the toilet paper is clean, can I assume I am pure?

Q: I started praying five times a day. Now I realize that I lost almost 25 years of praying. So according to this I was praying all this month but not regularly so Ramadan regularly praying almost praying for other days as well morning. Was it as well so I feel almost 10 years has been done now remaining 15 years prayers out there so I calculated for 15 years. So I need to clear 5475 pending prayers it is just an approximately figure please suggest advise me on this one

Q: If a girl made a promise that she won't drink a certain drink and now she is finding it very difficult, what should she do? Also if she drinks the drink will she have to give kaffarah (she said the words promise)?

Q: Is it permissible for a man or a woman to do intercourse if he or she is impure with wet dream without ghusl?

Q: Can I take money to teach Quraan?

Q: If someones nikaah is at zuhr time, then they feed people after zuhr but the groom will meet his wife after magrhrib. Will the meal time after zuhr suffice for waleema or should he distribute dates after spending time with his wife and class that as waleema?

Q: If a daughter calls her father ‘brother’ or a wife calls her husband ‘brother’ jokingly or any way, is it sinful?