Listening to one's mother

Q: I made plans a few months ago and told my parents that I would like to spend the last 10 days of Ramadan in South Africa with my teacher because he goes every Ramadan. They did not say much at the time. My mother is not allowing me to go. What should I do?

Having expectations in people

Q: I'm a student from Pakistan and alhamdolelah I am a Muslim. My question is that I have taken a loan from a friend for studies and it is a huge amount for me being student and now my friend is using me and treating me like his slave. In the beginning he promised me that he will help me with my studies, that's why I took the loan from him but now he wants his money back and threatens me that he will defame me and disrespect me. I don't have much money to pay him back. Can I call is a test from Allah for me?

Handling negativity from one's parents

Q: I always faced the issue of how to handle the negativity from parents. I always tend to believe that as a child, good qualities were always acquired from other relatives or good personalities Allah gave in my life but not from my parents. I'm in struggle between the fact that they are my Wali but have had hard time putting up with their character and practices! I'm answerable to Allah if I don't have a right attitude towards parents. But I am not able to put up with their negativity. What to do?

Spouses missing Salaah due to having intimacy

Q: We are a newly married couple (1 year). Every time we get intimate, we are missing our namazes. Even though we are trying really hard to control our desires, even if we get intimate every 4 days. My wife because of her migraine, sinus and long hair delays ghusal which makes me feel bad as because of me she is missing her namaaz. How do you recommend we should control our desires. Please tell us possible solutions.

Marital problems

Q: My husband is such a person who gets brain washed a lot. He was such a person that he used to listen to me but once people have started to say things such as you under your wife's control and mentioned another persons name and say you like him or becoming like him also people were jelous our marriage and may have casted an evil eye He has done things which are unreasonable such as fool around with Allah's deen and mention talaq but not give it. Situations are such that we do not live together and I wish for khula but before taking a big decision I was wondering if there is any wazifa amal which I could do which could make him ignore all the brainwashing and give priority to his wife and child and if black magic or nazar is done what do I do?