Omitting Salaah in college

Q: I usually get dropped off to college around 9AM and by the time I get picked up from college, the time for zuhr and asr prayer are already passed. Is it sinful for me to not be praying those salah? Is it okay for me to make up for the missed salah by praying the optional rakats of Maghrib and Isha?

Bribery

Q: If you can please enlighten me about a business like custom clearing and forwarding in Pakistan. You are the middle man between government and importer. you are forced to give bribe to custom officials in order to make them work otherwise they will linger you. They call it fees while government pays them already. From a sweeper till collector everybody works in this manner. Please guide me in detail or guide me where I can get detail to save my imaan.

Marital issues

Q: I got married a few years back and there was a couple of us who got married the same time, same day.

Everyone kept telling us how we look like such a good couple and were happy. Later I could notice how people use to be jelous of us. My husband is still good for the next 3 to 4 months. Now all of a sudden his really bad and we have had blackmagic dome on a number of us. How do I know if today our relationship is at stake because of black magic? Is there any dua that could change my husband his very tempered, use to like another girl , and is always brainwashed against his wife and son.

Wasting water while performing wudhu

Q: From the following ibarat it is understood it is totally impermissible to leave the tap open during wudhu. E.g while doing masah of the head. Is this correct?

وفي الدر ويكره الإسراف فيه تحريما لو بماء النهر أو المملوك له أما الموقوف على من يتطهر به ومنه ماء المدارس فحرام اهـ. حاشية الطحطاوي على مراقي الفلاح شرح نور الإيضاح . ( قوله : فحرام ) لأن الزيادة غير مأذون بها لأنه إنما يوقف ويساق لمن يتوضأ الوضوء الشرعي ولم يقصد إباحتها لغير ذلك حلية ، وينبغي تقييده بما ليس بجار كالذي في صهريج أو حوض أو نحو إبريق ، أما الجاري كماء مدارس دمشق وجوامعها فهو من المباح كماء النهر كما أفاده الرحمتي . رد المحتار وَالْكَرَاهَةُ فِيمَا إِذَا كَانَ الْمَاءُ مَمْلُوكًا أَوْ مُبَاحًا، أَمَّا الْمَاءُ الْمَوْقُوفُ عَلَى مَنْ يَتَطَهَّرُ بِهِ - وَمِنْهُ مَاءُ الْمَدَارِسِ - فَإِنَّ الزِّيَادَةَ فِيهِ عَلَى الثَّلاَثِ حَرَامٌ عِنْدَ الْجَمِيعِ، لِكَوْنِهَا غَيْرَ مَأْذُونٍ بِهَا، لأَِنَّهُ إِنَّمَا يُوقَفُ وَيُسَاقُ لِمَنْ يَتَوَضَّأُ الْوُضُوءَ الشَّرْعِيَّ، وَلَمْ يَقْصِدْ إِبَاحَتَهَا لِغَيْرِ ذَلِكَ. (1) (1) نهاية المحتاج 1 / 173، وابن عابدين 1 / 90، والدسوقي 1 / 101 وما بعدها، والمغني 1 / 139 وما بعدها. الموسوعة الفقهية الكويتية

Jazakallahu khairaa

Masturbation

Q: What is the ruling of masturbation in Islam for men and women? I have heard that it can cause weak memory and eyesight as well as other health problems.

Tearing up one's step father's visa

Q: My mom married someone who my mom brought to uk. When time came for his visa to be renewed my mom had two choice one to give him permanent or just extend. My mom wanted to give him just extended because she did not like his behaviour as it changed as he was already married as well. According to my mother he threatened her and said if you don't give me permanent visa I will tell everyone you married me as it was kept a secret. Also he said when you go back you watch what happens something along the lines. Due to the threats and pressure she applied for permanent visa but was very unsatisfied so she asked me to help her to collect his letter and destroy it. Which I did and due to destroying the letter he was deported as he had overstayed. Am I sinful as I just helped my mother. Now my mother does not speak to him for obvious reasons, there is no contact so if I had said something in anger to him am I sinful?