Q: From the following ibarat it is understood it is totally impermissible to leave the tap open during wudhu. E.g while doing masah of the head. Is this correct?

وفي الدر ويكره الإسراف فيه تحريما لو بماء النهر أو المملوك له أما الموقوف على من يتطهر به ومنه ماء المدارس فحرام اهـ. حاشية الطحطاوي على مراقي الفلاح شرح نور الإيضاح . ( قوله : فحرام ) لأن الزيادة غير مأذون بها لأنه إنما يوقف ويساق لمن يتوضأ الوضوء الشرعي ولم يقصد إباحتها لغير ذلك حلية ، وينبغي تقييده بما ليس بجار كالذي في صهريج أو حوض أو نحو إبريق ، أما الجاري كماء مدارس دمشق وجوامعها فهو من المباح كماء النهر كما أفاده الرحمتي . رد المحتار وَالْكَرَاهَةُ فِيمَا إِذَا كَانَ الْمَاءُ مَمْلُوكًا أَوْ مُبَاحًا، أَمَّا الْمَاءُ الْمَوْقُوفُ عَلَى مَنْ يَتَطَهَّرُ بِهِ - وَمِنْهُ مَاءُ الْمَدَارِسِ - فَإِنَّ الزِّيَادَةَ فِيهِ عَلَى الثَّلاَثِ حَرَامٌ عِنْدَ الْجَمِيعِ، لِكَوْنِهَا غَيْرَ مَأْذُونٍ بِهَا، لأَِنَّهُ إِنَّمَا يُوقَفُ وَيُسَاقُ لِمَنْ يَتَوَضَّأُ الْوُضُوءَ الشَّرْعِيَّ، وَلَمْ يَقْصِدْ إِبَاحَتَهَا لِغَيْرِ ذَلِكَ. (1) (1) نهاية المحتاج 1 / 173، وابن عابدين 1 / 90، والدسوقي 1 / 101 وما بعدها، والمغني 1 / 139 وما بعدها. الموسوعة الفقهية الكويتية

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