Inheritance

Q: I have a question and need an answer according to Islamic Shari'ah. My father died in 1992 and he inherited one small house. We are 3 brothers and 1 sister living in joint family. My elder brother worked and earned money for home running and also we received an amount from a good person on monthly basis as charity for me, my younger brother and sister (not elder brother due to his age fit for working). We lived and covered the expenses from these incomes. When this charity income stopped, I started teaching for living. Later on I joined a private company and earned lots of money and built a new house. We all shifted to that home and lived for 7 years and I covered all home expenses, mother, brothers, sister including whole family of my elder brother in which there are 5 children aged 5 years. Now we want to divide the property which is the new house built by me in 2013 after my father's death and the old house inherited by my father. Can this new house also be divided in brothers and sister or just we need to divide the house inherited by my father. I mean the new house amount was fully earned all by me and cannot be divided because this is my self earned amount not inherited by my father. My brothers say that all property will be equally divided, but I say that only my father's property will be divided and the rest is self earned property of mine after several years of my father's death. Please let me know the solution for the property division which is earned by brothers not inherited by father. Do my brothers and sister have a right in the property which I have self earned after my father's death or they only have right in the property which my father has inherited?

Bells

Q:

1. Is it permissible to give a pet (like a cat or a bird) a toy bell to play with? The bell obviously makes a sound when the animal is playing with it.

2. Is it permissible to attach a bell to the collar of a pet cat? It would help in finding the cat as the bell makes a sound with any small movement the animal makes.

Being respectful and kind towards one's parents

Q: I am a woman who is married to a beautiful person Alhamdulilah and have three children. I also have an amazing set of parents. I love them a lot and care for them. I respect them and I have succeeded in keeping them happy with my behaviour and humbleness towards them. I do this only because Allah has mentioned this over and over again about the rights of parents. I have tried my best not to disappoint them and keep asking them to forgive me if I have. My question is my parents keep talking of what belongs to my brothers amongst their properties and what belongs to me, although any sane person would say how unjust the division is. I have never said uff or raised my voice against their decision. But the thought keeps eating me from inside that although I have loved and obeyed every single word of my parents, why is it that I am being tested by not getting what Allah has given me the right to. My brothers are so disobedient and abuse my parents (at least one of them), they keep raising their voice against my parents decisions and I have selflessly always tried to make peace without thinking of any personal gain. Today, if I don't think of what is mine and what my haqq is, nobody will. I just don't know how to voice my mind to my parents only with the fear of upsetting them or maybe letting them down. They always come to me for opinions and help and I have always helped them without any ulterior motive. Just that nobody has any guarantee of time and I don't want to come to a point where I will be head on with my brothers and maybe ruin my relationship with them over my right. Please help me. I am torn, hurt and very upset.

Marital problems

Q: I have been married for three years and have two babies. My husband is abusive, drinks and might be having affairs as well. He says he wants this marriage to work but I can't live in Pakistan being born from UK as he takes advantage of me there. People say he is mad as the way he behaves makes my life very very hard to compromise. He has bipolar and shouts and fights without any real reasons. Please I would love him to be normal again. What should I do or read?

Husband telling the wife "when you were my wife"

Q: I write to you dear Mufti Saheb on behalf of a close family relative. The situation is regarding Talaaq. Some time ago he whilst having a discussion with his wife mentioned to her: "when you were my wife" I do not know in what context either jokingly or what but he does not recall the context but did not intend divorce, he has told her straight after this incident that if divorce had fallen he revokes it. Secondly, recently he had a heated argument with his wife in the car and told her angrily get out of the car and he recalls telling her numerous times if it would make you happy why don't you leave? However they are extremely happy currently and he would like to know what is the status with talaaq falling?

Names not found in the Quraan

Q: Kindly which names are Quranic and which are not?

Aaima  آﺋمه Leader, ruler

Afia عافیه good health, vigour

Alishba علشبه Lovely, Innocent, Pretty

Almira المیره Princess

Alveena Loved one, cared one, liked

Areeba اریبۃ Wise

Areefa عریفه Learned, expert

Batool بتول A true devotee woman of Allah.)

Dua دعا  Pray

Hadiya  ھادیه   Guide to righteousness; fem. of Hadi leader.

Origin:Arabic=Meaning:Allah Ke Rehmat=The name Abrish:

Abqurah Genius

Ad’ifaah Smart, talented

Adeena  Pious, good luck

Afizah  A person who knows the recital of the qur’an

Ahdia   Unique, The One

Alesha  Protected by god

Zerina  Princess, Smart, Inteligent

Zoya    Loving & caring, Alive, life and joyous

Daria   Learned, knowing

Esha’al Protected by god

Faekah  Wise

Insha   Creation, origination

Jannah  Heaven, paradise

Jannat  Heaven

Mahdiya Rightly Guided By Allah

Mahira  Highly skilled, Expert

Manal   Attainment, achievement

Muhita  2 "Encompassing", "aware of", "knowledgeable about"      

مُحِيْطَة       Muheetah

مُحِيْطَة       Muheetah

Romeesa Heavens beauty

Shahnoor        Royal Glow

Shahzana        Princess married to a king

Shanum  Allahs blessing, dignity

Aali    4       "High", "sublime"       عَالِي  `Aali

Muntaha 3       "Ultimate goal", "ultimate destiny", "final destination"   

مُنْتَهَى       Muntaha

Hunafa  2       "Ones who are devoted to God", "ones who believe in God's oneness"        حُنَفَاء

Hunafaa

Ola     2       "Highest"       عُلا    `Ulaa

Marib   1       "Goal", "aim", "purpose"        مَآرِب  Ma'aarib

Minhaj  1       "Path", "way of life", "curriculum"     مِنْهَاج        Minhaaj

Man-tasha-u jisay chahay

Man-Yasha-u jissay chahta hai

Shifa   4       "Cure", "recovery"      شِفَاء  Shifaa'

I have checked on internet but the answers are confusung....! please guide me

Cheating on one's wife

Q: I cheated with my wife by sleeping with another women. My wife came to know about it. She says if I say it's true then she wants talaaq. Should I lie to her that it's not true and continue with our marriage or should I tell her the truth.