Premarital relationships

Q: I am a divorced woman. My question is about courting in Islam. What is the steps one should follow when considering courting? I want to follow a correct procedure as when I got married before, my father did not allow any courting. Should the guy want to see me he was to come home, as a result I barely knew him and ended up abused and divorced a year later. Please advise.

Suicide

Q: Everyone hates me, even my mother wanted to kill me. Please help me I am also fed up with my life and want to commit suicide. Help me, what can I do?

Reciting wudhu duas in a joint toilet and bathroom

Q: I wanted to know about wudu in bathroom area. As you know in western countries (UK) Commode and sink and shower all in one, 3 piece bathroom. I wanted to know if I am making wudu in bathroom and I cover commode with lid, then I can read mustahab duas in toilets because dirty part is closed now though in same bathroom or in close vicinity or am I not allowed to read any duas there, while making wudu?