Marital problems

Q: My husband is at Sudia Arbia. It has been two year of our marriage, he comes for a total of 6 months and in this duration he does not have interest in sex, and he don't want to keep me with him. I can't control my emotions. What should I do that Allah will not punish me. I don't want to done zina by hand, eyes or the actual zina. Please help and guide me. My husband doesn't talk to me on the phone when he is in Sudia.

Inheritance

Q: My father wants to stipulate in his will that his house be sold to my sister at a value capped at R1 000 000. This money will then form part of his estate and distributed according to the Shariah. The house is currently worth in excess of R1 000 000. Is this Shariah compliant?

Urine problem

Q: Sorry for asking a question every time regarding incontinence of urine. A mazoor has to wash his private part and make wudhu for every prayer right?

1. So can I clean my private part with wet tissue paper (by putting tissue in water) and do wudhu?

2. After finishing one namaz, i just replace the tissue paper with fresh tissue paper and make wudhu and pray. I don't clean my private part for another namaaz. For example I have clean private part for asr prayer, make wudhu and pray magrib. I only replace tissue paper in my undergarments and make wudhu and pray. I don't the clean private part for maghrib. Am I doing it right?

Investing borrowed money

Q: My mother lent me R 15 000 which I was able to pay back. I invested the R15 000 on her behalf. I invested more as a gift but now had to use some of that money but the loan amount is still safe. Can I use the extra money without having to pay it back as we never agree to more that just the R 15000?

Getting married as a second wife

Q: I would like to find out something regarding talaaq. My husband and I have been recently divorced due to many issues we have been having along the years. About 6 years actually. Two years ago I met someone and we fell in love, this man loves me and now wants to marry me. I love him too and want to be with him as well. He says when my iddat is over we will decide etc. I want to know if we can still communicate and keep in touch or am I forbidden to him for the duration of my iddat. We are both big business people and are well known in the community so we sometimes need to meet and talk etc. We will not hold or touch etc but sometimes need to meet to discuss the future. Kindly advise. Also he is currently married, he has big kids and does not want to lose them. I have asked him to let me go but this is not an option for him. His wife knows about us and threatens to take the kids away. His daughter will be married soon and will no longer be under the roof. The son is big and will definitely stay with his father as he does not get on with his mum. The smaller kid may be a problem. I understand that he does not need her permission to marry me and she cannot ask for a divorce for this reason. He says he wants to talk to her about a second wife. How does one approach this situation and soften the blow as most modern woman do not want to share their men. My head is in such a mess right now and cannot think straight, please make me maaf, will you kindly answer each part of my confused email. I really appreciate it.