Q: I have trouble getting over my wifes affair. I am trying so hard to get past it and I can't seem to forget. Im still with her but its so hard on me. I just can't believe she has done this. I know I must forgive and I have forgiven but I just can't move forward. What must I do?
Q: My husband keeps getting upset and stops talking to me for 3/4 days if I don't sleep with him in bed when I am in my priod. It's been happening for 15 years. I have explained to him so many times. One month if he improves then the next month he is worse. Please help out with any dua or prayer I can do to stop and understand him. If I don't let him have what he wants then he will get angry and stop talking to me from morning. It takes him at list few days or until I get better.
Q: I received a message posted on social media about a Durood Sharif Majlis at a Darul Uloom during which a person present in the Majlis had a vision of Nabi Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam telling him that it was his desire that such Majalis should take place everywhere. A scholar who was present there and to whom this was narrated stated that it was his heart's desire that Durood Sharif Khatams should be established in all Darul Ulooms.I know of a Darul Uloom where such a Khatam takes place. I wanted to know should I attend or not? If not, would you be kind enough to explain to me why as I see no obvious reason why I shouldn't?
Q: Is it permissible to give babies toys e.g. soccer ball with small bells inside that jingle when moved around?
Q: If during the night while sleeping some how sperm came out. In such a condition what do we have to do? Do we have to change the bed sheet or just clean that place with water?
Q: I want to know according to Hadith and Qur'an if a husband can eat wife's (half eaten or partially eaten or drunk) food or liquid?
Q: I know that it is compulsory for Muslims to take a shower after sexual intercourse (having sex) but what if there were no actual sex involved and your wife plays with you till you cum? She was still fully clothed. Its more like relieving himself but his wife does it for him, none of the discharge fluid touches him.
Q: My husband has a really big problem, he cannot budget, he spends without thinking. It's not the first time he is sitting with a very huge debt, and this is becoming a big problem for me and my kids. He borrows money from people to pay off debts, this is not right, please advise?
Q: What are the rights of mother and wife? I have been married for 6 years with two kids and my wife has problems with my mothers hold on the kitchen. After every 6 months she has an hunger strike to get her demands met. This time I am getting her a separate accommodation because of quarrel between sister and mother. Despite having a big house where I can get her separated on the upper portion she is not willing to live. I have to spend all my earnings for separate accommodation. I have lived 6 years with her cursing my family and me. She does not respect me in front of my family and her family at times. The only reason I am bearing all this because Allah Ta'ala dislikes divorce and I have two daughters aged 4 and 2 years and what I do today will reflect on their life? I may not be a good husband by not listening to her concerns but I didn't like one thing that she never prayed or offered salat. I do not have mental peace and because I do not have a nature to be aggressive my marriage is in ruins because of my family and wife. Need a sincere advise and dua whereby we all can live in harmony.
Q: My question pertains to Muhammad al Faatih. Most of Ahlus Sunnah wal Jama'a believe that he was the blessed conqueror prophecised in the Hadith. However, some from the Salafiyyah at my Uni believe that he was not and the Hadith is referring to the Mahdi. In turn, they say some horrendous things against Muhamad al Faatih and incriminate him with incest, drinking and other Kaba'ir. These Salafi's are doing a lot of damage to the Muslims at my campus. A Shaikh once told me that there is Ijma' of the scholars that Muhammad al Faatih was the conqueror of Constantinople that was referred to in the Hadith. Can I please request as many references to scholars and citations of consensus that Muhammad al Faatih was in fact the one Prophecised in the Hadith? This will help me alleviate the confusion and doubts that the Salafis are imbuing in the minds of the Muslims.