Bussiness problems

Q: I am 40 years, my second brother is 38 years, my 3rd brother 35 years, my father 65 Years old. Our father is the owner of the business but my mother is still controlling the shop. She sits on the cashier and controlling the business. Our father has to ask her for money and she always questions about what my father is going to do with the money. Sometimes she refused to give money if she comes to knows that our father is spending on us. The business is very big but we are still struggling for money etc. In other words we cannot see barkat in that family business. The company has two trucks and one car. But my brothers and I have no car. We have only motobike due to short wages. What shall we advise our father?

Not feeling attracted to women

Q: My son is 23 years old and a hafez ul quran. We have been talking to him about getting married and after many months he has now confided to his mother that he does  not feel attracted to women but perhaps more to a man. He assures her that he has not done anything wrong and he has been looking for Duas to pray to help him overcome this illness. Can you help please urgently?

Masturbation

Q: The act of masturbation is defined as rubbing ones private parts to reach climax and this is not allowed in Islam. Now my question is, is it wrong if a person without touching his privates reaches climax, for example, bouncing on ones bed facing towards the roof with the intention of climaxing yet not touching the genitals. Would this be termed as 'masturbation' and is it wrong Islamically?

Asking for a separation

Q: My husband is having an affair with other women, which he refuses to break relations with. He is a very abusive man who abuses me emotionally, mentally and physically. We have 2 children together who have witnessed all the abuse. Do I have grounds for a divorce and what are they?