Q: 

1. I am a mother and I sometimes feel I have done injustice, zulm etc when I try to resolve my young sons fighting issues(5,7 yrs old) shd I apologise to the kids or only do Tauba?
2. Secondly I headed that it is wrong to have prolonged ambitions (Aarzoon ka lamba Hona) does this mean we cannot plan ahead our kids futures or carreer planning or saving for our kids marriages etc. please explain?

Q: When we pray in the masjid, normally on carpet or jay-a- namaz there is a picture of haram shareef or masjid-e-nabvi, so once jammat is finished all the people walk on it, so will it be gunnah because its like be hurmati of these holy places?

Q: I would like to know please, if a women gets discharge:

1. Does she have to make a fresh wudhu for zuhar salaah if she made wudhu after sunrise?
2. If not does she have to check and remove the najasah?
3. I the discharge is not regular(eg: she may not experience discharge for whole day), will she still have to make a fresh wudhu for each salaah?

Q: Is it allowed to go to  a buzurg or a highly religious person who does a lot of ibadah and ask him to pray to Allah about my problem. And can we supplicate through an intermediary i.e through tawasul of a righteous one, living or dead e.g through Sheikh Abdul Qadir Jeelani. And I also want to know is it permissible for men and women to visit the shrines of say Sheikh Abdul Qadir Jeelani and other without committing any shirk and praying to Allah directly there?

Q: I got married 4 months ago and mistakenly I used the word nifaz instead of janaba while doing bath after monthly periods and was reading namaz and also quran daily. Do I have to give kaffara or I did a big mistake and your advice is appreciated. Please help I am in much dilemma.

Q: My parents and I are going for Umrah on the 23 February insha allah. Please can you shed some light on Umrah for me as this is going to be our first trip out of South Africa. I have been reading books on Umrah.

Q: What should I do for fear of going alone far from home, mental problem, buiseness not giving profit?

Q: I am soon getting married and i'm not ready to have a child, is it haram to use contraception?

Q: Because of medication, I experience retrograde ejaculation. When I reach an orgasm during sleep (due to a dream), nothing comes out, since the sperm is redirected to the urinary bladder and comes out later, with the urine. Does such a "wet dream" necessitate ghusl even though it isn't wet in my case?

Q: I do transport for a company that does packaging for various other companies. I do not know the details of their agreemants. I was given a bag of products from the company as they were moving warehouse. Also the balance of the products were returned to the companies for whom this company offers their services to. Can I use these products or is it better to return them?