Hadith Question

Q: I heard a Moulana mention in his bayaan a Hadith of Nabi (Sallalahu Alayhi Wasallam) something to the effect that 'That person who will have dates (kajoor) for 3 days every month, no evil sickness or calamity will befall them". Can Mufti Saheb please explain this hadith to me. What is the manner in which we are supposed to consume the dates? Do we eat only dates for three whole days, or only a certain amount of it during the 3 days or how exactly do we consume it. What tarteeb can be used to make amal on this hadith?

Being faithful to Allah Ta'ala

Q: I am in very big emotional distress. I have known a man for a while. He decided to leave me as we was not official to get married in Pakistan. When he returned he realised he didn't feel compatible to this woman. He grew apart from her as he was in love with me. I knew this but I knew this cud not be. I went for umrah to ask forgiveness. I came back and started a fresh. Then one day I bumped into him again and he declared his love etc. One thing lead to another and I slipped up and decided to give him a chance. I thought Allah is joining us. I don't know what to do because now he is saying he will divorce the wife to re marry. I feel so confused and don't want to start my life in a curse. We said we would go for umrah if things are meant to be. He also has bad addictions due to all this stress. I am scared could I trust this man? He is not willing to let me go and wants to make things halaal.

Wearing niqaab

Q: My wife wears an abaya and a scarf but does not do niqab. She teaches in an Islamic school where all teachers are required to wear niqab so she does there. But outside I encourage her repeatedly but she says I'm not ready and when I insist more she gets upset and starts crying. Can you please advise me what to do in this situation? I don't want to be in sin because she is my wife and I also want the best for her in the akhira.

Hair of Hazrat Nabi (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam)

Q: I would like to know about the Prophets hair which is exhibited during 9th of month Rabiul Awwal every year for public to have blessings. It is believed that some hairs will move by them self and many had witnessed it. Some hairs grow and some of them offshoot new hairs. I myself have witnessed it at one place.  I would like to know the reality of this miracle.

Telling one's wife "go" in an argument

Q: I suffer from wasaawis, but not on a major level, just mildly. I was arguing with my wife and she kicked me. After this I said go. My intent
was if that is how you are going to treat me then just go. At the same time the thought of divorce kept going through my head. Then I thought to myself this could mean divorce and immediately thought to myself I am not intending divorce. Did divorce occur in this situation?

Mother being abusive to her children

Q: Is it permissable to leave the home of your mother unmarried? I have a 2 year old daughter and I am a single mother. I live with my mother, brothers (1 of which is disabled) and a daughter. My mother has been emotionally abusive towards myself and siblings most of our lives. She has the behaviour of a narcotic and lives her life believing that bad things are sent to her from people doing dirty work. She even blames myself, siblings and even her own family of sending things to her. We've tried speaking to her but she takes offence of anyone offering her advice. I would like to know is it wrong to leave her home as a Muslim unmarried woman in order to protect my daughter from having to endure the same abuse and bad duahs put upon her? And also to protect myself and ensure a happier life for my mother as well as myself? May Allah protect us from the bad duahs, and guide us to make the right choices and May Allah guide and protect my mother too, and grant her ease, comfort contentment and happiness.