Dream

Q: I dreamed that I was sitting at a window when, as though a dejavu, a woman appears beside me (I don't know who it could be) and she starts reading from a page. This page apparently advises what I must do with my life and the outcomes following it. I cannot see what is written on the page since she is facing me with the page facing her. Although I trust the woman. Again like a dejavu, suddenly, I appear back at home. It looks bright with noor and a good feeling. A relieved moment but I'm aware of it. My mom tells me that my sister-in-law has given birth to a baby girl. I already know this and what the name would be as I have lived this day before. In reality (waking life) this niece is 9 years old already. As I joke to my mom what 'I think (because I know) what the girls name would be, an arab man wearing a bright white fez and sallah top walks in to give me a message in arabic (which sounds like a surah of the quraan I don't know) and I had a message for him too but just one word in arabic (I don't remember the word but it sounded like 'robit' or something with an "r" & a "t").

Suddenly I became aware of the reason I was sent back in time. It was meant for me to know the message. I looked frantically for the message in my drawer. As if the last time, I overlooked the message. I kept thinking to myself "don't forget the message". Then suddenly I was removed from that scene and back to sitting at the window where the woman was. It comes to me somehow that the woman who I had previously trusted had been false. I took the page she was reading from and everything she had said to me was false. She had mislead me. She had previously told me to put my eyelash on a guy and what I must do/follow and that would lead me to happiness. However, when I read the page it was apparent that she had given me the complete opposite info of what was written. Even the guy she said was good for me was false and misleading. Everything she said was a steer into unhappiness, contrary to what is written on the page. In this dream, I felt as though for 9 years I was mislead by someone I trusted. This page had a list of info scribbled down. The only thing I remember from the page when I awoke is the name of a person. I know this person in reale life too. Kindly advise me what this could mean.

Dream

Q: My dream was that I went to my uncle's home and when I reached the gate I saw a big hole which I could not cross. His wife said to me that you can't cross it and a dog was with her. I told her that my mom wanted to meet her brother. She said that he can't meet. I often see dogs with that lady and they always stop my way to enter my uncle's home. Please interpret.

Questions on intimate relations between husband and wife

Q:

  1. If a women gets aroused while sitting with her husband and the vaginal area gets wet,but no intercourse takes place; does ghusl become fardh on the lady?
  2. If the husband fondles his wife's clitoris and she does not orgasm but the area does become wet, is ghusl fardh?
  3. Can the husband and wife masturbate each other?
  4. Is oral sex allowed in Islam, if none of the najaasat is swallowed?
  5. Is it permissable for a couple to use vibrators and other sex toys?

Dream

Q: We are talking to a family for my marriage proposal. because things are in progress. My mother did istikhara for 7 days. One night she saw my father or herself holding or capturing two green parrots with long beaks. On another night she saw herself eating cashew. Please interpret.

Dream

Q: I had a dream that someone was throwing colour on me and I don't know what colour it was. Please tell me the interpretation of this. Also I had another dream that my dad was in a mehfil and he said to my mum that "mein thuki faruk karna" what is the meaning?

Looking for a job

Q: I was working in one of world's best company for the last two years. Due to some dispute with the manager I resigned in the month of April. Since then I am looking for a job but I cannot succeed. I have been offering namaz and have been fasting throughout this month of Ramzan but still nothing is working out for me. I have completed few wazifas as well but it didn't help me either. Can you please suggest for me what should I do. I am desperately looking for a job and all my savings are about to expire.

Joining family ties

Q: I wanted to ask that if someone cannot continue relations with his relatives, will his prayers be accepted or not? If not, then will all his prayers and worship for Allah Ta'ala be accepted or gone to waste?