Being attached to another person

Q: I would like to know if there is any guidelines, positives, negatives etc. in the shariah with regard to attachment to another person. In certain relationships attachment will be permissible eg.husband - wife, teacher - student mother - child etc but is there any limit? If a person is over attached to someone what advise would you give them to overcome this? How can one one gauge if their attachment to a person is negative/positive?

I store my kitaabs in the following order. Is it correct?

Q: Below are the Kitaabs that I make common use of. The list below is in the order in which I store them - one on top of the other.

Mufti Saheb, please advise if the order is fine owing to their respective importance.

From top to bottom:

  1. Surah Ya-Sin Kitaab.
  2. First five para’s of the Qur’an Shareef.
  3. “Essential Duas In The Life Of A Muslim.”
  4. “Duas for the contentment of the heart.”
  5. “Taleemul Haq”

Washing machine

Q: I had a bunch of shoes that I needed to wash, leather running shoes and other shoes. One of my shoes had pee drops on it. I put the shoes into a washing machine with soap and then after the first washing was done, I did another wash in the same machine with soap. I was going to do a third but I didn't because I thought it was clean. Do you have do wash things that are najis in the washing machine by entering money on three different cycles, or is the one time with money enough for the clothes to be clean?