Q: 

1. The Messenger of Allah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) said something to this effect: Be careful! Those who were before you, used to transform the graves of their prophets and pious people in places of worship, beware of transforming tombs as places of worship. I forbid you this. (Saheeh Muslim) Please give me the page number.
2. The Surah tabarakallazi said to Allah Ta’ala: “Remove me from your book if you did not forgive him”. Is there any Hadith something to this effect from the Messenger of Allah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam)?
3. Please mention those Ahaadith which show the virtue of dying in either Makkah or Madinah.
4. There is a Hadith in Saheeh Bukhaari which mentions the Du’a of Umar (Radiyallahu Anhu) to die as a martyr in the town of the Messenger of Allah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam). Please give me the page number.

Q: Are men allowed to have embroidery on their clothes? Even little bit embroidery around the neck of the kurta/shirts. I understand heavy and lot of embroidery is a women thing and must be avoided but nowadays we find kurtas/and shirts with little bit work around neck, should it be worn by men or should the garments of the men be plain?

Secondly, it is in a Hadith not to copy non-Muslims. Nowadays Muslim men wear pants and shirts which I think is a western originated dress. You are treated as a weird person if you don't wear, so what should be the ruling about it?

Thirdly, I read somewhere that men should also not wear tight clothes, is it true? Then pants are fitted garments?

Fourthly I also read that men should also not dress up in a way that attracts the opposite sex. 

Please guide me how much of the above information is correct or not. And what should be the ruling about the other questions I asked?

Q: Durood, Salaat & Salaam, do all these terms mean the same thing or do they all have different meanings?

Q: My husband and I both work and pay bills together. I feel that because I work as well he should be helping me with housework. I do the cooking and taking care of the kitchen and laundry and most of the ironing. It's just the cleaning the I need help with most times. And sometimes I want him to do his own ironing. What is the ruling in that? He seems to think it is a wife's duty to do all that work and I'm not fulfilling it. Is he right?

Q: I'm currently 7 months pregnant and keeping my qadha fasts. Yesterday I unintentionally broke my fast 1 minute early thinking that was the correct time of ifthar. I realised later in the evening that it was a minute early. What do I do?

Q: If one is in a mosque and the person that leads the prayer makes masah over regular socks. Now is this reason for one beforehand that one should not pray behind him (as normally people wash their feet in the morning and then wipe for the salaah thereafter), or is it essential that one must have seen him wiping before that actual prayer? 

Q: Someone said that tashahhud is not required in witr salaah. Is it correct?

Q:

1. If we have to spit we are ordered to spit on the left side but we are also ordered not to spit in the direction of qiblah. What is the ruling when we are walking and the qiblah is to our left? Can we spit to the left in that case?
2. How to spit in a place where we don't know the direction of the qibla. Can we spit to the left in that case?

Q: If I gave my word to a new employer to move to his company and at the last minute and after he stopped looking for someone to fill my new position I changed my mind and decided to stay at my current company. If I stay my new employers work will be affected and if I leave my old work will to be affected as they have not found a replacement for me yet. If I change my mind at the last minute to move to a new company, is it haram because I gave my word to move? Please help me I need to answer both employers tomorrow.

Q: My father were 4 brothers and 1 sister. As my grandfather expired at such a time where my father and his siblings were quite young, my father's eldest brother therefore took care of the family business. My grandfather owned a leather factory. Few years things were going well Alhumdulilah but later after the marriage of my father's eldest brother he deprived everybody else in the family except his mother of the income which was till now being generated from the factory. He said that because since so many years he was looking after the business therefore the factory was now his and nobody in the family was to put his claim anymore. My grandmother also supported him because she was getting her monthly expenditure from him. My father, mother and the rest of my uncles and aunt took the matter to the court but even there my eldest uncle did something because of which my parents had to withdraw the case. Since then, my parents were in a very bad financial condition and had to suffer a lot. Now the state of my family is like very hostile towards each other. My eldest uncle has now expired and his wife has taken over the business and we are still deprived of the income which is generated from the factory. This hurts my parents and many a times a fight ensues. The  daughters of my eldest uncle has abused my mother very badly and said things to her which was worst than the worst. Keeping all the situations in mind, what should we do now as we are not in talking terms with them but fear Allah's anger that if we break ties then Allah will be angry but being in talking terms with them is very tough as they even think that we are doing so in order to gain benefit from them which is not true. As they have abused my mother I just don't feel like being good towards them any more. What should be done in this case? And what is to be done with the factory thing? Don't we have any right over its income? Its been 25 years nearly since we have been deprived of our rights.